Obituaries
DR. HARRY PROSEN June 27, 1930 – June 21, 2021
Peacefully, on June 21, with family by his side, Harry Prosen sadly passed away at his home in Mequon, Wisconsin.
Harry is survived by his four children, Patricia and her husband Doug, Jory and his wife Lolita, Deidre and her husband Michael, his son David; his sister-in-law Jean Prosen; and nieces, Leandrea and Jennifer; and nephew Jonathon. Harry was predeceased by his wife Yvonne; his parents, Felix and Ruth Prosen; and his brother Melvin Prosen.
Harry was born in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, to Felix and Ruth Prosen. He lived the first part of his childhood in Calgary and then moved to Winnipeg where he worked from a young age to put himself through medical school. He met his wife, Yvonne, on a blind date and they were married for 60 years. Harry was an outstanding student who received his MD from the University of Manitoba in 1955 and completed a residency in psychiatry at the University of Chicago studying under Heinz Kohut. He went on to lead two departments of psychiatry for 28 years, first in Winnipeg at the University of Manitoba (1975 to 1987) and then in Milwaukee at the Medical College of Wisconsin (1987 to 2003). He retired in 2003 and was bestowed with the Distinguished Service Award by MCW. His professional legacy includes an ardent dedication to his patients, advocating for mental health awareness, producing numerous books and publications, helping to build the departments and their reputations, while promoting research and overseeing the training of many future psychiatrists. He was an Emeritus Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioural Medicine and a past president of the Canadian Psychiatric Association (1978 to 1979). He also had leadership roles with the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada and the American Psychiatric Association. More recently he became interested in organizations focused on advancing a more humane and empathetic world (World Transformation Movement in Australia) as well as working with zoos to improve the lives and mental wellbeing of primate species in captivity – something he was tremendously proud of.
Harry was an avid reader, a lifelong learner and continued to keep active and intellectually engaged with friends and family. He loved fishing in Vermillion Bay, Ontario and travelling all over the world. He loved to drive and frequently made the trip back to Winnipeg to visit family and friends once he was retired. He was immensely proud of his children and grandchildren. His greatest joy came from having his wife, children and grandchildren around. Nothing made him happier. He loved his grandchildren and enjoyed spending time with them – Benjamin, Mathilde, Leo and Jaevin. In October 2020, Yvonne sadly passed away and Harry recently told his family that he just missed her too much. He leaves his family and friends blessed by his memory and immense love.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Canadian Mental Health Association in Harry’s name. You can reach them at mbwpg.cmha.ca . Click the three little lines to get to donations and in the additional comments box please state that it is for Harry Prosen. Thank you.
We will be making arrangements for a memorial.
Obituaries
RUTH KLAPMAN December 20, 1929 – September 24, 2025
It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of our mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and aunt, Ruth Klapman.
Ruth lived a full life surrounded by family and friends. She was devoted to her late husband, Sam, her partner for 68 years. Together, they brought joy to every gathering-always the first to dance and the last to say goodbye.
Ruth was deeply committed to volunteer work. She gave her time to organizations including Hadassah, ORT, the National Council of Jewish Women, Pioneer Women, and the Women’s Endowment Fund. She chaired the ORT thrift store for 14 years, and she sang in Israel as a member of the Rosh Pina Synagogue Choir.
Ruth spent every summer at Winnipeg Beach, sharing komish and other treats with generations of neighbourhood children who would visit the cottage throughout the day. She was everybody’s ‘Bubbie’. Winters were spent in Palm Springs, welcoming her children and grandchildren for fun in the sun.
Ruth was a true party person who loved spending time with friends and hosting family gatherings. Her home was a place where people came together to share meals, stories, and laughter. She enjoyed travelling the world and never refusing an invitation, no matter where it was.
Mother to Sandi (Sam Malamud), Marla Bernstein, Hartley (Drew Salter), and Jody (Brian Goldberg); grandmother to Andrew (Hilary), Allan (Alona), Aaron (Alanna), Jason (Lindsay), Steven (Alexis), Dana (Tom), Brady (Matt), Carly (Jay), Hanna (Gaby), and Kevin (Ilana).
Great-grandmother to Florie, Stan, Juniper, Angus, Isaac, Otto, Cole, Chase, Charlotte, Rory, Mason, and Romi; sister-in-law to Sandy Youssiem; Auntie Ruthie to many nieces and nephews.
Ruth was predeceased by her husband Sam, her parents Reuben and Rose Youssiem, and her brother Saul Youssiem.
A special thank you to Marivel Toledo for her many years of care and dedication, and to Lorna Allen and Fabi Patriarca for their great support.
Thank you to Rabbi Matthew Leibl for officiating the funeral service, which took place on September 26, 2025, at Shaarey Zedek Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Ruth and Sam Klapman Fund at the Jewish Foundation of Manitoba, 204-477-7520.
Obituaries
JEROME AVERY
April 2, 1945 – September 11, 2025
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Jerome Avery, who passed away with his family by his side on September 11, 2025, at the age of 80.
Jerome was born in Winnipeg, Manitoba, to Allan and Diane Avery. He was married to the love of his life, Karen, for 46 years, until her passing. Jerome was blessed to find love and companionship again with Sergia, who he cared deeply for.
Jerome treasured being “Zaida” to his grandchildren, Danica, Alexis, and Nathan. Jerome is survived by his loving children, Robyn (Don) and Tammy (Chris); his grandchildren Danica (Benny), Alexis (Brett), and Nathan; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his wife Karen, his parents Allan and Diane Avery, and his in-laws Nathan and Rose Sarbit.
His smile lit up a room bringing joy and comfort to all who knew him.
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RITA SHAPERA (née SILVERMAN)
March 22, 1929 – September 2, 2025
It is with deep sadness that the family of Rita Shapera announces her passing on September 2, 2025, at the age of 96.
Born in Winnipeg to Isadore and Dolly Silverman, Rita grew up in the North End during the Depression yet always remembered her childhood as joyful and full of warmth. A striking beauty, her brother Gerry joked that he was bribed with chocolate by hopeful suitors! It was Dr. Monty Shapera, however, who won her heart, and they married in 1949.
Together, Rita and Monty moved to Flin Flon to establish his dental practice. What was meant to be a short stay blossomed into a decade filled with community, friendship, and the arrival of their three children. Returning to Winnipeg, Rita poured her boundless creativity and impeccable eye for design into building their River Heights home. A gifted cook, baker, and hostess, she made her home a gathering place brimming with love, laughter, and warmth.
Rita adored the famously purple family cottage at Winnipeg Beach, where her love of gardening and swimming took root. She relished travel – especially to Maui – along with bridge games with her circle of friends, evenings at the symphony, and years of community service with Hadassah, Kiwanis, and the Shaarey Zedek Sisterhood.
When Monty passed away in 1990, Rita embraced her role as a devoted grandmother and found joy in winters spent in Palm Springs. In 1996, she was blessed to find love again with Ted Jacob. Their marriage was filled with laughter, affection, and a partnership reminiscent of Burns and Allen. She cherished her bond with Teddy’s children, and though his passing in 2003 was another heartbreak, Rita described their time together as “perfect.”
Rita’s warmth, empathy, and radiant spirit made her a friend to all – whether across a bridge table, in her volunteer work, or even in a casual conversation while waiting in line. She embodied generosity and unconditional love, and as she often said, “I’ve had an amazing life.”
Rita is survived by her children, Nolan (Lori), Caryn Martin (Dr. Paul Martin), and Blair (Lois Vincent); her grandchildren, Tali, Ilyssa, Cale (Hannah), Ilana (Igal), Jordan, Mika (Nate), Shaan, and Eli; and her great-grandchildren, Lev, Theo, Shai, Llewyn, and Jaxx. She is also lovingly remembered by her brother Dr. Gerald (Pauline) Silverman. She was predeceased by her parents, her sister Sheila (Al Linder), and her husbands, Dr. Monty Shapera and Ted Jacob.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the dedicated care providers at Shaftesbury Park, the Simkin Centre, St. Boniface Hospital, and especially to Paulina Trinidad for her compassionate care.
Rita’s legacy is one of love, resilience, and joy. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered by her family and all who were fortunate enough to know her.
Donations in Rita’s memory can be made to Winnipeg Children’s Hospital or Diabetes Canada.