Obituaries
LOUIS BERNSTEIN
Louis Bernstein passed away on March 18, 2019 in the loving arms of his wife Clara.
Lou was predeceased by his parents Eva and Isaac Bernstein and sisters Bette Shapiro, Ann Banks and Tootsie Plotka. He is survived by his wife Clara, children Barbara and David Goldenberg, Roz and Marty Greenfeld, Keevin and Faren Bernstein, and Chutch and Evelyn Bernstein; his grandchildren Eli and Jenny Goldenberg, Sari Goldenberg and Daniel Borok, Benji Goldenberg and Ronit Kantarzhi, Joshua Greenfeld and Jodi Kravetsky, Jay Greenfeld and Ashley Cabernel, Amy and Daniel Dorsch, Kylie Bernstein and Tyler Benson, Brayden Bernstein, Griffin Bernstein, Matthew Bernstein, Lexie Bernstein and Cole Grossinger; his 11 great grandchildren Lucas, Molly, Nate, Asher, Reid, Jaxon, Kal, Hymie, Herschell, Zev and Haley; his sister-in-law and brother-in-law Sandra and Hal Rubin and many adoring nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.
Lou was born on Erev Passover in Romania in 1926 and immigrated to Canada at age 6 months. He grew up in Winnipeg’s North End where he spent his youth working in his father’s grocery store, attending St Johns Tech and developing a legendary reputation as a star football player. He continued his football feats at the University of Manitoba. He declined an offer for a football scholarship at the University of Miami and instead married his beloved Clara. In 1948 he opened a grocery store on Mulvey and Daly and then in 1956 he joined London Life Insurance Company where he had a successful career that spanned 35 years.
Our parents were childhood sweethearts and were married for 71 years. Theirs was an exemplary marriage and enduring love story. His children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren were his greatest joy and source of pride. His capacity for extending his warmth, humour and affection to all was boundless. He approached people, those he knew and those he didn’t, with a smile and a song. He truly considered himself enormously enriched from the reciprocal love and affection of those whose paths he crossed, throughout his entire life. He has left us with a legacy of how to lead one’s life and to live it to the fullest.
In the short time since his death, the family has received dozens of messages from all over the world from friends and family whose lives he touched; all with the same theme of the smiles, if not laughter they experienced every time in his presence. The love his children’s and grandchildren’s friends have for him is simply extraordinary. There will never be another Lou Bernstein.
His pallbearers were his seven grandsons Eli, Josh, Jay, Benji, Matthew, Brayden, and Griffin. Honorary pall bearer was Dr Neil Margolis, a beloved family friend, who saved Lou’s life during a cardiac arrest in 1995. The family would like to extend a special thanks to Joe, Marty and Marcelo, his wonderful caregivers in these last more difficult few months; to his many caring doctors, but especially Dr John Embil who went beyond the usual call of duty giving Lou care; to the wonderful staff and neighbours at Hampton Green, especially Jim and Doreen Yamashita. Donations may be made to the Rady Jewish Community Centre
(To paraphrase Dan Fogelberg, 1982)
The leader of the band is tired
And his eyes are growing old
But his blood runs through us instruments
And his song is in our soul
Our lives have been a weak attempt to imitate the man
We’re just a living legacy to the leader of the band.
Obituaries
LAWRENCE WERIER
Lawrence Werier passed away at home in Winnipeg on Wednesday, November 6 at the age of 98.
We thought he might live to 100, but it was not to be. Even though he was diminished by dementia in recent years, he still sparkled with an indomitable spirit that could not be missed, whether he was dancing with his many beloved caregivers or sitting quietly with his wife or children. He brought an intense energy to everything he accomplished, such as building a business, making a sale, playing tennis or scuba diving in some remote location.
His work at Goldin and Company was both challenging and joyful, and his entrepreneurial creativity brought him to Asia regularly, where he had close friends in Hong Kong and Taiwan. He married Eddy in 1949, and she remained the love of his life. They traveled the world together on many exotic trips, and in each place he would seek out adventure and fun. He was a force of life and an energetic presence who kept working and living and devouring experiences, always insisting that “the cup is half full.”
Many remember Lawrence as a great storyteller because he could never resist the impulse to share his exciting escapades with others. He didn’t retire until the age of 83, and even after formally ending his business, he continued to wheel and deal from home. In all of these passionate endeavors, he always had time for his children and grandchildren when they came to visit. His love of family was profound, and he demonstrated this love by generously bringing everyone together—children, spouses, grandchildren and Eddy—at treasured family gatherings in Costa Rica, St. Lucia and Mexico.
In recent days, people have reacted almost with astonishment that Lawrence has passed away, as if such a powerful energy might continue. We feel his loss deeply, along with his many friends in Winnipeg and beyond.
Lawrence is survived by his wife, Eddy, and his children, Kerry, Cliff and Jodie, and their spouses, Suzanne, Sabrina, and Michael. He is missed by his two granddaughters, Cynthia (her partner, Matt) and Alex. Lawrence was predeceased by his beloved grandson Koby. Lawrence had many wonderful caregivers at “the Shafts,” too numerous to mention, but Tess Braun was his special friend and honorary daughter, to whom the family is grateful beyond words. Tess, Chris, Mavis, Jonathon and Jules made him comfortable in his final days, and we extend thanks to them all.
Donations in his memory can be made to Shalom Residences (shalomresidences.com).
Obituaries
BETTY JOAN KATZ
Betty Katz passed away peacefully on October 26, 2024, at the age of 94.
She was predeceased by her husband, Melvyn (Mel) and her daughter, Michelle.
Betty is survived by her daughters, Alana (Ted) and Bonnie (Howard); her son, Andy; grandchildren, Jonathan (Leiba) and Jeremy; and great-grandchildren, Louis and Ada.
Betty and Mel were high school sweethearts and married in 1953. Shortly thereafter, they purchased their cherished home on Lanark Street where they lived until after their 60th wedding anniversary. As the children grew older, Betty began a career in property management.
Betty is fondly remembered for her outgoing nature, wit, tenacity, and her great cooking, notably – her signature dish – Spaghetti a la Betty Katz.
Thank you to the staff at the Saul and Claribel Simkin Centre where Betty received excellent care for the last eight years. Betty enjoyed the recreational activities and every opportunity to sit outdoors and at the sunny windows. Despite living with dementia, she was heard singing the words to “oldies” whenever there was an opportunity.
Thank you to Rabbi Matthew Leibl for leading a beautiful funeral service in Betty’s honour at the Shaarey Zedek Cemetery on October 28, 2024.
Obituaries
MARJORIE BAKALINSKY
It is with heavy hearts and deepest sadness that our family announce the peaceful passing of our dear sweet mother Marjorie Bakalinsky.
Mom passed away on Friday, October 18, 2024, at the Simkin Centre.
Mom was predeceased by her parents, Rose and Joseph Weinstein; her sister Shirley; her in-laws, Dora and Beryl Bakalinsky; her sister-in-law Rosalie; and most recently, her dearest brother in-law Shia. Mom is survived by her loving and dedicated life long partner Leonard; her children Rachelle (Bob), Marty (Theresa), Cheryl (Avrum) and Gayle (Frank); her loving grandchildren, Jennifer, David (Andrea), Daniel, Joshua, Kaitlyn, Carllen, and Jerrett; her sister Kayla (Saul), sister-in-law Miriam (Jerry), and many nieces and nephews.
Mom was born in Winnipeg on March 7, 1935. She was raised as a youngster in the north end on Burrows Ave, then moved to Ferry Rd in St. James where her parents owned a grocery store. After graduating high school in 1953, she enrolled in nursing school in Chicago. She spent one year studying in Chicago, came home for summer break, met our dad, fell in love and didn’t go back. On June 5, 1955, Mom and Dad exchanged their wedding vows and were able to celebrate 69 years of marital bliss.
Mom always put others in front of herself, especially our dad, her children and grandchildren. She was the most unselfish woman we have ever known and loved. The matriarch of our family. Our home on Coralberry Ave. was always an open door to our many childhood friends.
Mom loved our cottage at Falcon Lake where many wonderful memories were made over the years, with her grandchildren always by her side. That gave her the greatest joy.
For over 25 years Mom and Dad’s second home was in Margate, Florida. Every year Mom would welcome her children and grandchildren to their Florida home, where there was always a home cooked meal on the dinner table.
There were many things Mom loved to do. One was playing mahjong with her weekly groups in Winnipeg and in Florida. Mom was an active member of Hadassah and was very involved in the Bnay Abraham Synagogue sisterhood. All of these were secondary to her love for her husband, children and grandchildren.
When it came to the point where her family felt Mom was no longer safe in her own home, Dad made the very difficult decision to make the Simkin Centre her new home. All the staff at Simkin who cared for Mom treated her with respect and dignity. Mom’s family will forever be grateful to the wonderful people at the Simkin Centre.
To Rabbi Matthew Leibl, thank you for being a source of support for our family. Your presence helped guide us through mom’s stay in Simkin.
Mom, we love you to the moon and back and beyond.
Forever remembered, forever loved!
In loving memory of our mom, Marjorie, donations can be made to the Saul and Claribel Simkin Centre, or to the charity of your choice.
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