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LUBA (KAY) CATES

Luba Cates, loving and beloved wife and mother, passed away October 20th, 2017 in Winnipeg at age 89, 9 days short of her 90th birthday.


Her husband, Theodore (Ted) predeceased her in 2006 after 56 years of marriage. Luba leaves her children Farley, Margo and Tara, daughter-in-law Lois, son-in-law Alan Roth, brother Zachariah Kay and granddaughter Zoe. Luba was the daughter of Samuel and Rose Kay.
Luba had a bigger than life presence yet was solid and grounded and believed deeply in equality and acceptance. Even though a private person, Luba had the unique ability to enter a room and connect with strangers, making them feel immediately at ease and valuable. She believed age was just a number and her mind and zest for life allowed her to bypass generations and communicate with others regardless of age and experience.
Luba’s greatest love was her husband, Ted. Together they created a foundation of family and set a table where any subject or issue could be discussed openly. They had a vibrant social life and their home was always a warm and welcoming environment. They exemplified the best of what a marriage and partnership are about: perseverance, dedication, deep love, respect, dignity and compassion.
Luba and Ted were passionately interested in exploring other cultures and in the arts – these passions were passed on to their children from an early and throughout their lives:  a love for literature, music, theatre, film, travel, good conversation and thoughtful debate, humour and laughter but most importantly a will to weather life’s ups and downs with tenacity and strength.
Luba was devoted to the things in life that gave her purpose such as a lifelong love for volunteerism. She helped to establish the first pre-school daycare program in Appleton, Wisconsin, one of the first in the entire Midwest region. During her adult years, she was co-owner of an art business and an active member with Pioneer Women and the National Council for Jewish Women. In her senior years, she was devoted to the Gwen Sector Centre for Seniors, the Saturday Night Discussion Group and the Winnipeg Yiddish Group. She was dedicated to preserving family history and her commitment to celebrating Yiddish culture lead to her involvement as a translator on Arguing the Storm, a critically lauded collection of Yiddish stories. The group had the honour of receiving UNESCO’s World Treasure status.
Luba will always be remembered by family, friends and community as a woman of warmth, wit, and wisdom.
Funeral services were held October 22nd at the Chesed Shel Emes with burial at the Shaarey Zedek Cemetery. Donations may be made to a charity of choice or to The Gwen Sector Centre (Winnipeg), Jewish Public Library (Montreal) or The Winnipeg Jewish Child and Family Services.

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LOUIS ELFENBAUM March 12, 1936 – December 9, 2024

With great sadness, we announce the passing of Dr. Louis Elfenbaum. Louis was a popular Professor of Kinesiology at California State University, Sacramento. He taught for 38 years and then retired and moved to San Diego, California, with his wife, Elizabeth.
Born in rural Lipton, Saskatchewan, on March 12, 1936, Louis was the youngest of six children of Abraham and Dora Elfenbaum. With his siblings, Louis braved the harsh Canadian climate to maintain the family farm.
At age 14, Louis moved to Winnipeg, Manitoba, where he lived with his sister and attended St. John’s High School. In high school, Louis was extremely popular, an excellent student, an accomplished athlete, and was voted school president.
After high school, Louis studied at Manitoba Teachers’ College and began his teaching career. He earned his bachelor’s degree from Bemidji State College in Minnesota, followed by a Master of Science in Physical Education from the University of North Dakota. He earned his Doctorate in Kinesiology from Ohio State University in 1966. His early professorships were at West Texas State University (now West Texas A&M) and prestigious McGill University in Montreal, Quebec, Canada.
In 1970, Louis accepted a full professorship at California State University, Sacramento where he taught Kinesiology for close to four decades. During his tenure as a professor, Louis pursued his interest in law, earning his J.D. degree from Lincoln Law School in 1982.
Louis cared deeply about his students, offering a special lecture about life that attracted students not only from his department, but also from the entire university. He valued intellectual curiosity and fostered that spirit in his students as well as his four children, who have all pursued higher education earning advanced degrees.
Louis had a magnetic personality. He was kind, patient, generous, caring, honest and selfless. Those attributes had a lasting positive impact on everyone he met. He was adored by his family including his children, grandchildren, brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and cousins, who greatly valued his wisdom, his guidance and his unconditional love.
Louis is survived by his wife, Elizabeth Lefcort, (pre-deceased by his ex-wife Esther—d. 2018–and mother of) his four children, Adrian Elfenbaum (JoAnne Winter), Ian Elfenbaum (Susan Adler), Marcia Elfenbaum, Pamela Elfenbaum (David Klein), 2 stepchildren, 13 grandchildren, and one great-grandchild.

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GARY MELTZER January 28, 1953 – July 31, 2024

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the peaceful passing of Gary Martin Meltzer on Wednesday, July 31, 2024, at the Grace Hospital, surrounded by his loving family. Born on January 28, 1953, in Beausejour, Manitoba,
Gary was the cherished son of Arnie and Helen Meltzer (née Shore).
Gary was predeceased by his devoted parents, Arnie and Helen Meltzer, and his brother, Allan Meltzer. He is survived by his nephew Jonathan Meltzer (Sean), niece Megan Meltzer, his great-niece Gabby Meltzer and his great-nephews, Jerrod Meltzer and Benji Carroll. Gary will be deeply missed by his many cousins. He shared a particularly close relationship with his cousin Jennifer Curtis-Lane. Jennifer’s steadfast presence by Gary’s side in his final days was a testament to their deep connection. Gary’s love extended to Jennifer’s husband Deon and their three daughters, Sophie, Abby, and Emily.
Gary’s early years were spent in Beausejour Manitoba, where his father Arnie and Uncle Sid started their business. Those days were filledwith the warmth and joy of a large extended family. In 1964, the Meltzer family moved to Winnipeg, settling on Hartford Avenue in West Kildonan, where Gary attended West Kildonan Collegiate before earning his CPA degree from the University of Manitoba.
A naturally private person, Gary was happiest when surrounded by family and talking about politics, sports or current events. His fondest memories were of summers spent at Winnipeg Beach with his Margulius and Shore cousins. As he grew older, Gary became more reserved, quietly excelling in a wide range of skills. Whether fixing cars, repairing things around the house, or building intricate model airplanes and cars, Gary’s talents were many, yet he never sought attention for them.
Gary’s aptitude for numbers and building, found a perfect outlet in his career as a CPA and bookkeeper for companies specializing in window manufacturing and installation. His professional career eventually took him from the back office to the factory floor where his last few years were spent building windows andother items that used to fill his spreadsheets. His professional skills were matched by a deep love for hockey. As a devoted Winnipeg Jets 1.0 season ticket holder, Gary was known for his passionate “coaching” from his favourite chair during away games.
Gary was a man of habit and tradition. He frequented the Salisbury House at Main Street and Matheson for coffee and the Green Briar Inn for beers with friends. His vanity license plate, “GO AWAY,” became infamous in the family, a quirky symbol of his unique personality.
One of Gary’s lesser-known talents was baking. He took pride in mastering his mother’s cherished recipes, often sharing his creations with Jennifer and her daughters, who were his willing taste-testers.
Gary’s big heart was often hidden beneath a quiet demeanour, but his family always knew they could count on him. Whether helping with a move, installing appliances, or giving advice on home improvements, Gary was always there.
After his father Arnie fell ill, Gary remained at home to help his mother. He continued to help Helen adjust to life without Arnie, demonstrating his unwavering dedication to family.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to the staff on the 3rd floor of the Grace Hospital for their compassionate care during Gary’s final weeks, with special gratitude to Nurse Tyler for his empathy and kindness.
A special thank you to Tracey Kasner for conducting Gary’s funeral and capturing his essence. Funeral service was held on Friday, August 2, 2024, at the Hebrew Sick Cemetery.
Pallbearers included Jonathan Meltzer, Megan Meltzer, Jennifer Lane, Jeffrey Curtis, Rick Shore, and Leon Pincovich.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Jewish Federation of Winnipeg or Cancer- Care Manitoba.
Gary will be remembered for his quiet strength, his selflessness, and the love he had for his family. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

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JERRY MOSCOVITCH

Jerry Moscovitch, husband to Gloria and father to Susan and Dan passed away at the Simkin Centre January 2, 2025.

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