Obituaries
Mary Benarroch November 11, 1930 – May 29, 202321 Cheshvan 5961 – 9 Sivan 5783
Peacefully and surrounded by her family, Mary Benarroch z”l passed away at the age of 92 on Monday, May 29, 2023 (9th day of Sivan, 5783). Mary is predeceased by her beloved husband of 62 years, Salomon Benarroch, parents Yamin Muyal and Rachma (Bensoussan), and sister, Esther Levy. Mary is survived by her children Rabbi Yossi (Elana Carrol), Rabbi Yamin (Rivka Ohayon), Michael (Kim Bailey), and Albert (Brenlee Sucharov), siblings Mojluf Muyal (Mary), Anita Muyal (Mojluf z”l), Moses Muyal (Darcy z”l), fifteen grandchildren and twenty-one great grandchildren.
Mary was born in Casablanca, Morocco in 1930 and moved to Tangier, Morocco at a young age where she was raised and closely connected to Jewish life. The vibrancy of the cosmopolitan Tangier and its tightknit Jewish community permeated her family life. As a young woman, Mary worked at a woman’s clothing boutique, Fifth Avenue, which sold the height of Western fashions. She met her soulmate in the shy and gentle Salomon and were married on September 15, 1954. Children soon followed – twins Yossi and Yamin in 1957, and Michael in 1959. Life for Jews in Morocco was generally positive, until Arab-Jewish tensions began to slowly escalate following the birth of the State of Israel. With the massive exodus of Moroccan Jews in the late 1950’s thru early 1960’s, Mary and Salomon made the big move and set off for Canada in 1963. First by ship, aboard the Queen Frederica to Halifax, and then by train, they settled in Winnipeg, with three young children in tow. Soon came the arrival of their youngest, Albert, in 1964. Mary was the consummate homemaker, creating a strong Jewish home built on the core values and principles of love, respect, total devotion to husband, and children.
In her early years in Canada, Mary was a devoted homemaker preserving the Sephardic traditions of Morocco, while also learning the nuances of Ashkenaz recipes from her newfound community. Devotion to the family home and the cycles of Jewish life were at the centre of Mary’s life – with Shabbat, Jewish holidays, and all fast days, observed to the highest degree.
In the mid 1970’s, Mary started a home daycare providing much needed childcare for many children, something needed by many orthodox parents. She had a natural rapport and magnetism with young children, something that she turned into a career over the next 30 years, first at home, then as an Assistant at Talmud Torah’s nursery and kindergarten, and finally at Aleph-Bet Daycare.
Mary was the consummate aunt and grandmother to her many nieces, nephews, and grandchildren. She maintained regular contact with many of them, even though they were all over the world. Mary was an active member in Jewish community life, both at synagogue and in the Winnipeg Chapter of Emunah Women, where she made countless, lifelong friends. She was a second mother to many of her children’s friends, ensuring that the home was always open and welcoming to all. As many of those friends have attested, the Jewishness and warmth of the Benarroch home made lasting lifelong impacts on many of them.
Mary spent her final years at the Saul and Claribel Simkin Centre, whose care and compassion cannot be measured. Though her final years were ravaged by dementia, Mary never forgot her family, her many early memories, or her gregarious social skills. The ultimate testament to Mary’s legacy is the unwavering support she afforded all her children and her investment in their educations – all of whom excelled in their respective fields, are community leaders, and devoted to Jewish life. As she would often say, even at the end “All my children are educated.”
Loved by all and deeply missed, Mary’s funeral took place at the Chesed Shel Emes, 1023 Main Street, on Tuesday May 30, 2023, officiated by close family friend, Rabbi Charles Grysman of Toronto. Pallbearers were Mary’s grandsons, Aden Benarroch, Keenan Benarroch, Netanel Benarroch, Zion Benarroch, and nephews Yamin Muyal and Aaron Benarroch. Interment followed at the Hebrew Sick Benefit Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Mary’s memory can be made to the Adas Yeshurun- Herzlia Synagogue (204-489-6262) or Jewish Child and Family Service (204-477-7430).
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LOUIS ELFENBAUM March 12, 1936 – December 9, 2024
With great sadness, we announce the passing of Dr. Louis Elfenbaum. Louis was a popular Professor of Kinesiology at California State University, Sacramento. He taught for 38 years and then retired and moved to San Diego, California, with his wife, Elizabeth.
Born in rural Lipton, Saskatchewan, on March 12, 1936, Louis was the youngest of six children of Abraham and Dora Elfenbaum. With his siblings, Louis braved the harsh Canadian climate to maintain the family farm.
At age 14, Louis moved to Winnipeg, Manitoba, where he lived with his sister and attended St. John’s High School. In high school, Louis was extremely popular, an excellent student, an accomplished athlete, and was voted school president.
After high school, Louis studied at Manitoba Teachers’ College and began his teaching career. He earned his bachelor’s degree from Bemidji State College in Minnesota, followed by a Master of Science in Physical Education from the University of North Dakota. He earned his Doctorate in Kinesiology from Ohio State University in 1966. His early professorships were at West Texas State University (now West Texas A&M) and prestigious McGill University in Montreal, Quebec, Canada.
In 1970, Louis accepted a full professorship at California State University, Sacramento where he taught Kinesiology for close to four decades. During his tenure as a professor, Louis pursued his interest in law, earning his J.D. degree from Lincoln Law School in 1982.
Louis cared deeply about his students, offering a special lecture about life that attracted students not only from his department, but also from the entire university. He valued intellectual curiosity and fostered that spirit in his students as well as his four children, who have all pursued higher education earning advanced degrees.
Louis had a magnetic personality. He was kind, patient, generous, caring, honest and selfless. Those attributes had a lasting positive impact on everyone he met. He was adored by his family including his children, grandchildren, brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and cousins, who greatly valued his wisdom, his guidance and his unconditional love.
Louis is survived by his wife, Elizabeth Lefcort, (pre-deceased by his ex-wife Esther—d. 2018–and mother of) his four children, Adrian Elfenbaum (JoAnne Winter), Ian Elfenbaum (Susan Adler), Marcia Elfenbaum, Pamela Elfenbaum (David Klein), 2 stepchildren, 13 grandchildren, and one great-grandchild.
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GARY MELTZER January 28, 1953 – July 31, 2024
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the peaceful passing of Gary Martin Meltzer on Wednesday, July 31, 2024, at the Grace Hospital, surrounded by his loving family. Born on January 28, 1953, in Beausejour, Manitoba,
Gary was the cherished son of Arnie and Helen Meltzer (née Shore).
Gary was predeceased by his devoted parents, Arnie and Helen Meltzer, and his brother, Allan Meltzer. He is survived by his nephew Jonathan Meltzer (Sean), niece Megan Meltzer, his great-niece Gabby Meltzer and his great-nephews, Jerrod Meltzer and Benji Carroll. Gary will be deeply missed by his many cousins. He shared a particularly close relationship with his cousin Jennifer Curtis-Lane. Jennifer’s steadfast presence by Gary’s side in his final days was a testament to their deep connection. Gary’s love extended to Jennifer’s husband Deon and their three daughters, Sophie, Abby, and Emily.
Gary’s early years were spent in Beausejour Manitoba, where his father Arnie and Uncle Sid started their business. Those days were filledwith the warmth and joy of a large extended family. In 1964, the Meltzer family moved to Winnipeg, settling on Hartford Avenue in West Kildonan, where Gary attended West Kildonan Collegiate before earning his CPA degree from the University of Manitoba.
A naturally private person, Gary was happiest when surrounded by family and talking about politics, sports or current events. His fondest memories were of summers spent at Winnipeg Beach with his Margulius and Shore cousins. As he grew older, Gary became more reserved, quietly excelling in a wide range of skills. Whether fixing cars, repairing things around the house, or building intricate model airplanes and cars, Gary’s talents were many, yet he never sought attention for them.
Gary’s aptitude for numbers and building, found a perfect outlet in his career as a CPA and bookkeeper for companies specializing in window manufacturing and installation. His professional career eventually took him from the back office to the factory floor where his last few years were spent building windows andother items that used to fill his spreadsheets. His professional skills were matched by a deep love for hockey. As a devoted Winnipeg Jets 1.0 season ticket holder, Gary was known for his passionate “coaching” from his favourite chair during away games.
Gary was a man of habit and tradition. He frequented the Salisbury House at Main Street and Matheson for coffee and the Green Briar Inn for beers with friends. His vanity license plate, “GO AWAY,” became infamous in the family, a quirky symbol of his unique personality.
One of Gary’s lesser-known talents was baking. He took pride in mastering his mother’s cherished recipes, often sharing his creations with Jennifer and her daughters, who were his willing taste-testers.
Gary’s big heart was often hidden beneath a quiet demeanour, but his family always knew they could count on him. Whether helping with a move, installing appliances, or giving advice on home improvements, Gary was always there.
After his father Arnie fell ill, Gary remained at home to help his mother. He continued to help Helen adjust to life without Arnie, demonstrating his unwavering dedication to family.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to the staff on the 3rd floor of the Grace Hospital for their compassionate care during Gary’s final weeks, with special gratitude to Nurse Tyler for his empathy and kindness.
A special thank you to Tracey Kasner for conducting Gary’s funeral and capturing his essence. Funeral service was held on Friday, August 2, 2024, at the Hebrew Sick Cemetery.
Pallbearers included Jonathan Meltzer, Megan Meltzer, Jennifer Lane, Jeffrey Curtis, Rick Shore, and Leon Pincovich.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Jewish Federation of Winnipeg or Cancer- Care Manitoba.
Gary will be remembered for his quiet strength, his selflessness, and the love he had for his family. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
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JERRY MOSCOVITCH
Jerry Moscovitch, husband to Gloria and father to Susan and Dan passed away at the Simkin Centre January 2, 2025.
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