Connect with us

RSS

The Challenge You Are Facing Right Now Might Be Needed to Help You Grow

Reading from a Torah scroll in accordance with Sephardi tradition. Photo: Sagie Maoz via Wikimedia Commons.

Years ago, former Israeli Chief Rabbi Yisrael Meir Lau shared an incredible story that continues to resonate deeply. Two elite Israeli soldiers, part of a highly specialized anti-terror unit, were sent on a critical mission: to capture or eliminate a notorious terrorist hiding in Lebanon. The operation brought them to the terrorist’s home, where they burst in to find his wife and three young children. The soldiers searched the home meticulously, but the target was nowhere to be found.

As one soldier guarded the family, the woman suddenly spoke — astonishingly, in Hebrew. She claimed she was Jewish and, to prove it, revealed a chai necklace around her neck. Skeptical, the soldiers demanded further evidence. The woman directed them to a record hidden beneath her mattress, saying it would confirm her story. They found the record as described. Its cover bore the words Kol Nidrei.

The woman then shared her extraordinary tale. “I grew up in Minneapolis and my parents were Holocaust survivors. When I went to college, I fell in love with a man of Lebanese descent. We planned to marry and move to Lebanon, but my parents were devastated. My mother, furious and heartbroken, gave me an ultimatum: If I married him, I would cease to be her daughter.”

“Confused, but deeply in love, I left. At the airport, as I stood in line to check my baggage, my father appeared. With tears in his eyes, he reassured me that no matter what, I would always be his daughter and always have a home to return to. He gave me this chai necklace as a parting gift, asking me to wear it always. Then, he handed me his most treasured possession — a record of Kol Nidrei, his favorite cantorial piece. He begged me to play it from time to time and remember my roots.”

The soldiers, moved by her story, believed her. The commander spoke plainly: “Your husband will eventually be captured or killed. Either way, you have no life here. Come with us, return to Israel, and reclaim your place among your people.”

And she did. The woman and her children left Lebanon and rebuilt their lives in Israel. She remarried — a Jewish man this time — and her parents flew to Israel to attend the wedding. They met their grandchildren for the first time, a joyous reunion that had once seemed impossible. The children were enrolled in religious schools, and today, the family lives as religious Jews in Israel.

This story feels especially poignant in light of this week’s Torah portion, Vayishlach. Jacob is preparing to face his brother Esav, who remains furious over the stolen birthright blessing. Alone and vulnerable in the night, Jacob is confronted by a mysterious figure. The Torah tells us: “A man wrestled with him until the break of dawn.”

Who was this man, and why did he engage Jacob in this all night struggle?

The great medieval commentator, the Rashbam, identifies this man as an angel sent by God. His mission was to compel Jacob to confront his fears and fulfill his destiny by meeting Esav face-to-face. Based on this, my friend, Yeshiva University President Rabbi Ari Berman, suggests that this is part of a larger theme in the book of Genesis — that whenever the Patriarchs are confronted with a potentially life-altering situation and facing their covenantal destiny, an anonymous ish, a “person,” appears to help the Torah figure move in the right direction.

Later in the Torah, we see this again with Joseph. When Jacob sends him to check on his brothers near Shechem, Joseph becomes lost. Out of nowhere, an ish appears and tells him his brothers have moved on to Dosan. Thanks to this encounter, Joseph finds his brothers, who throw him into a pit and eventually sell him into slavery. Though it appears to be a tragedy, this event sets the stage for Joseph to descend to Egypt and fulfill his covenantal destiny.

Sometimes we too need to confront our most difficult challenges to become the people we were meant to be. But God also helps us get there. He sends special people or an odd circumstance to help us reach that place. We just need to learn to see those people or experiences as possibilities for growth. The problem is that we lack perspective, and when we are going through something unfortunate or difficult, we often think it is just a step back. Losing a job, ending a relationship, or encountering failure can feel devastating, yet these experiences often open doors we never imagined. Facing Esav in Jacob’s case, or going down to Egypt in Joseph’s situation, could only be perceived at the time as negative and unfortunate situations. But both circumstances ultimately put Jacob and Joseph where they needed to be to become the great men they ultimately became.

I don’t know how marrying a Lebanese terrorist could be seen as anything short of disastrous, and this young woman certainly made the wrong choice at that time in her life. But after the fact, it put her in a situation where she was given another choice to make, to leave her husband, return to her people and become committed to Judaism in a way that perhaps she might never have — had she remained in Minneapolis her whole life. God works in mysterious ways.

May Hashem help us find the strength to embrace life’s challenges with faith and openness. And may we have the clarity to recognize the ish — the people and moments that guide us toward our covenantal destiny, helping us become the individuals we were meant to be.

Rabbi Mark Wildes is the founder and director of the Manhattan Jewish Experience (MJE), a vibrant community for young Jewish professionals, and the author of The 40 Day Challenge: Daily Jewish Insights to Prepare for the High Holidays and Beyond the Instant: Jewish Wisdom for Lasting Happiness in a Fast-Paced Social Media World.

The post The Challenge You Are Facing Right Now Might Be Needed to Help You Grow first appeared on Algemeiner.com.

Continue Reading

RSS

Israeli Strike on Tehran Kills Bodyguard of Slain Hezbollah Chief

Iranian Foreign Minister Abbas Araqchi lays a wreath as he visits the burial site of former Hezbollah leader Hassan Nasrallah, on the outskirts of Beirut, Lebanon, June 3, 2025. Photo: REUTERS/Mohamed Azakir

A member of Lebanese armed group Hezbollah was killed in an Israeli air strike on Tehran alongside a member of an Iran-aligned Iraqi armed group, a senior Lebanese security source told Reuters and the Iraqi group said on Saturday.

The source identified the Hezbollah member as Abu Ali Khalil, who had served as a bodyguard for Hezbollah’s slain chief Hassan Nasrallah. The source said Khalil had been on a religious pilgrimage to Iraq when he met up with a member of the Kataeb Sayyed Al-Shuhada group.

They traveled together to Tehran and were both killed in an Israeli strike there, along with Khalil’s son, the senior security source said. Hezbollah has not joined in Iran’s air strikes against Israel from Lebanon.

Kataeb Sayyed Al-Shuhada published a statement confirming that both the head of its security unit and Khalil had been killed in an Israeli strike.

Nasrallah was killed in an Israeli aerial attack on Beirut’s southern suburbs in September.

Israel and Iran have been trading strikes for nine consecutive days since Israel launched attacks on Iran, saying Tehran was on the verge of developing nuclear weapons. Iran has said it does not seek nuclear weapons.

The post Israeli Strike on Tehran Kills Bodyguard of Slain Hezbollah Chief first appeared on Algemeiner.com.

Continue Reading

RSS

Hamas Financial Officer and Commander Eliminated by IDF in the Gaza Strip

Israeli soldiers operate during a ground operation in the southern Gaza Strip, amid the Israel-Hamas conflict, July 3, 2024. Photo: Ohad Zwigenberg/Pool via REUTERS

i24 News – The Israeli Defense Forces (IDF), in cooperation with the General Security Service (Shin Bet), announced on Friday the killing of Ibrahim Abu Shamala, a senior financial official in Hamas’ military wing.

The operation took place on June 17th in the central Gaza Strip.

Abu Shamala held several key positions, including financial officer for Hamas’ military wing and assistant to Marwan Issa, the deputy commander of Hamas’ military wing until his elimination in March 2024.

He was responsible for managing all the financial resources of Hamas’ military wing in Gaza, overseeing the planning and execution of the group’s war budget. This involved handling and smuggling millions of dollars into the Gaza Strip to fund Hamas’ military operations.

The post Hamas Financial Officer and Commander Eliminated by IDF in the Gaza Strip first appeared on Algemeiner.com.

Continue Reading

RSS

Report: Wary of Assassination by Israel, Khamenei Names 3 Potential Successors

Iran’s Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei waves during a meeting in Tehran, Iran, May 20, 2025. Photo: Office of the Iranian Supreme Leader/WANA (West Asia News Agency)/Handout via REUTERS

i24 News – Iran’s supreme leader Ali Khamenei named three senior clerics as candidates to succeed him should he be killed, the New York Times reported on Saturday citing unnamed Iranian officials. It is understood the Ayatollah fears he could be assassinated in the coming days.

Khamenei reportedly mostly speaks with his commanders through a trusted aide now, suspending electronic communications.

Khamenei has designated three senior religious figures as candidates to replace him as well as choosing successors in the military chain of command in the likely event that additional senior officials be eliminated.

Earlier on Saturday Israel confirmed the elimination of Saeed Izadi and Bhanam Shahriari.

Shahriari, head of Iran’s Quds Force Weapons Transfer Unit, responsible for arming Hamas, Hezbollah, and the Houthis, was killed in an Israeli airstrike over 1,000 km from Israel in western Iran.

The post Report: Wary of Assassination by Israel, Khamenei Names 3 Potential Successors first appeared on Algemeiner.com.

Continue Reading

Copyright © 2017 - 2023 Jewish Post & News