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Jewish Federation CEO Jeff Lieberman acknowledges importance of reaching out to members of the community who are disaffected
By BERNIE BELLAN It was billed as “Java with Jeff” – a chance for anyone to talk to Jewish Federation CEO Jeff Lieberman in an open setting at Schmoozer’s Café. There were to be two sessions: an early morning session Monday morning, September 8, and an evening session Tuesday, September 23, at 7:30 pm.
While I didn’t attend the morning session held on September 8, anecdotally I heard that there was a good crowd and so, I expected much the same for the Tuesday, September 23 session – which I did attend.
As a result, I was somewhat shocked when I entered the Asper Campus that Tuesday evening and saw absolutely no one waiting in Schmoozer’s Café. I checked my phone again to make sure that I had the right date and time and, sure enough, I did.
Eventually, an old acquaintance by the name of Uriel Jelin – whom I hadn’t seen in quite a long time, walked up to where I was sitting at a table in Schmoozer’s and asked me whether I was also there to see Jeff Lieberman. I said I was, but Uriel was equally stupefied that no one else was there. (By the way, Uriel Jelin immigrated to Winnipeg from Argentina in 2015, along with his wife, Cynthia Fidel, and their two children, Anna Sofia and Eliel. They were profiled in an April 2016 issue of The Jewish Post & News by Rebeca Kuropatwa.)
While Uriel and I chatted, catching up on where he and Cynthia are at now, we noticed that, gathered in the courtyard adjoining Schmoozer’s, was a group, including Jeff Lieberman. (It turns out it was some sort of meeting for Gray Academy.) Within a few minutes, Jeff entered through the door leading into the campus. I approached him and asked him whether he was still planning on going ahead with “Java with Jeff,” despite the scarcity of attendees.
Jeff said he was going to proceed as planned but, instead of holding an open forum – which was the initial plan, he said, it would make more sense to hold a series of one-on-ones with whoever showed up. As it was, a very aggressive woman (who showed up after Uriel and I had been sitting waiting for Jeff to show up), approached Jeff and said to him that she had something to attend, so she asked whether she could sit down with him first. (I wasn’t surprised that someone had the effrontery to push herself to the head of the line.)
While that rude woman was sitting talking to Jeff, two more individuals showed up and said that they, too, would like to talk to Jeff.
While the rude woman spent over 20 minutes talking to Jeff, I engaged the two new individuals in conversation. They introduced themselves as Shota and Lia Megrelishvili – recent arrivals to our city from Georgia (not the Georgia in the USA). Georgia, which seceded from the Soviet Union in 1991, had been following a pro-Western stance, Shota explained, but its most recent prime minister has been attempting to shift the country back into a more pro-Russian stance, he noted.
Eventually, Jeff invited the four of us: Uriel, Shota, Lia, and me, to join him and Carrie Shenkarow (who said she was the incoming President of the Jewish Federation, about to take over from current President Paula Parks in November), at one table. (I should note that Paula Parks did show up as well, but she ended up sitting with someone else who had apparently come to participate in whatever it was that was supposed to take place. Paula and that person ended up having their own private conversation at a different Schmoozer’s table.)
Given the quite small number of individuals who had come out, Jeff suggested that we all just introduce ourselves and ask any questions anyone might have of him.
Shota took the opportunity to say how grateful he and Lia were to the Federation for the help they had been given in moving to Winnipeg. He added that he and Lia were there because they wanted to offer their services to the Federation to volunteer in any capacity the Federation might think useful.
At that point both Shota and Lia told the story how they had ended up in Winnipeg. While Shota said he had found work immediately in his field (IT), Lia was sadly underemployed (working in a food store), even though she was also qualified to work in IT.
I said to them that, years ago, I had been involved, along with former Rady JCC Programming Director Tamar Barr, in setting up what was called the Jewish Business Network. I said that I had retained every business card I had ever been given at any of the Jewish Business Network meetings and I knew that I had cards from at least a couple of individuals who were involved in IT. I said I would try to put Shota and Lia in touch with someone in IT – which I did the next day.
Eventually though, after everyone had had their chance to talk to Jeff, I said to him that I would like to take the opportunity to ask him some questions. I must add that I had tried to get a response from Jeff around the time the Federation had enmeshed itself in the affairs of BB Camp back in April, when then-Executive Director Jacob Brodovdsky had found himself caught up in a witch hunt engendered by the publisher of a website known as the J.ca, during which Brodovsky was accused of not showing enough support for the State of Israel.
Even though the board of BB Camp had given Brodovsky a full vote of confidence, the Jewish Federation had stepped in and, only three days after the BB Camp had issued that vote of confidence to Brodovsky, the Federation held an emergency meeting to discuss the situation and – the next day, Brodovsky was let go from his position. I never did get a response from Jeff as to why the Federation had interceded in the affairs of one of its beneficiary agencies (which, presumably, operate autonomously from the Federation.)
But, now that I had the opportunity to talk to Jeff one on one, I began by saying that I wasn’t going to revisit what happened to Jacob Brodovsky and that, no doubt, Jacob himself wanted to move on from what had happened.
Instead, I said, I wanted to ask how the Federation “can reach out to people who feel the Federation doesn’t represent them?”
Jeff answered that holding this kind of session was a way for people to “talk to the Federation, to talk to me. This may be the beginning, but maybe we can do something else – like a town hall – by Zoom or something, where people could ask questions, hold a conversation. I understand that there are people out there who don’t understand what Federation does, who don’t know the difference between Federation and (Jewish) Foundation…
“After I became CEO (in July 2023), I held a series of meetings, along with Dalia (Szpiro, Jewish Federation GrowWinnipeg Director) with Israelis. I was shocked to hear from some of them that they had never set foot in this building.”
I said that “they live far away in a lot of cases.” I noted that when Gayle Waxman was Rady JCC Executive Director, she started holding events in Transcona, for instance, to take programming closer to where many Israelis live.
Jeff added that, to make things even more difficult, some of the Israelis now live in Sage Creek which, I suggested, is “about as far away from the campus as you can get.”
“Here’s the other thing,” I said though: “Aside from involvement in the community,” there’s a situation where, especially among a lot of young people” – noting I had received a number of emails around the time of the Brodovsky controversy, “there’s a feeling that ‘if we don’t line themselves up in total support for Israel, we feel marginalized, we’re not accepted as part of the community.’ Is there room for people – like me,” I asked, “to have dissenting voices?”
Jeff agreed there are people who “feel we don’t represent them because of our support of Israel and we support Israel – the right of people there to feel secure, not to have to worry about their safety, but we don’t talk about support for the Israeli government, we talk about the Israeli people.”
“You talked about holding a ‘town hall,’ ” I said, “maybe through Zoom..and that would be kind of awkward,” , but “you agree about reaching out to people who feel excluded, who don’t feel part of the mainstream? It’s a tough one – because things have become so polarized.”
Jeff acknowledged “there’s a certain percentage of Jews who don’t agree with our position on the State of Israel.”
I said, “It’s probably a lot more than you think because I meet a lot of people who are ostensibly Jewish, who say we don’t want anything to do with the Jewish Federation… but – if you can put some flesh on the bone, and reach out by having some sort of town hall, that would be a way of perhaps doing something to make people who are currently disaffected feel that the Federation is at least listening to them.”
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Shalom Residences Foundation to host third annual donor appreciation evening
By MYRON LOVE On Tuesday, June 16, Shalom Residences Foundation Inc (SRFI) will be hosting its third annual Donor Appreciation evening. Donors and other Shalom Residences supporters can look forward to chilling to the music of local singer/songwriter David Grenon (aka Soul Bear), who will be performing songs by Billy Joel, Elton John and other well-known artists.
For readers who are not yet familiar with Shalom Residences, the organization was originally created to care for intellectually challenged Jewish young adults. The vision was to provide them with a Jewish environment – strictly kosher group homes where all the Jewish holidays are observed and celebrated.
One of Shalom Residences’ objectives has always been to develop a community in which individuals with intellectual disabilities are fully included, self-actualized, and valued in all aspects of life.
The concept has been a remarkable success.
Shalom Residences was founded in 1980 by six far-sighted couples, including Thelma and Ernie Bronstein, Dolly and Zivey Chudnow, Min and Joe Fromkin, Roberta and Larry Hurtig, Elaine and Bobby Paul,
and Sybil and Frank Steele. The original Shalom Home was a converted house on Cathedral Avenue.
“Thelma Bronstein’s determination and dynamism contributed to making it happen,” says Elaine Paul, currently Shalom Residences’ treasurer (and for the past 20 years, the organization’s leading fundraiser).
I remember the home’s official opening. This was shortly after I started writing for the Jewish Post. Rabbi Charles Grysman affixed the mezzuzah to the door frame.
Today, the organization operates six group homes housing 19 residents as well as 12 residents in supported independent living arrangements.
While the operations today are largely funded by the provincial government – which means that the residences have to be open to accepting non-Jewish clients as well (just over half of the residents are Jewish) – the Shalom Residences Foundation funding supplements the government contribution – providing financial support for increasing staffing levels when needed, as well as extraordinary expenditures and contingencies. The Foundation has also provided the down payment for the purchase of new housing when necessary. .
The necessity of fundraising was evident right from the beginning. Elaine Paul recalls that the first Manitoba Marathon – in which all the founding parents were involved – provided the funding for the mortgage at 175 Cathedral Ave.
“We worked with Helen Steinkopf and John Robertson to develop the marathon,” Paul remembers. ”For several years, Hy Kravetsky and I worked handing out water to the runners.”
Paul relates that it was Zivey Chudnow who was instrumental in starting up Shalom Residences’ annual fundraising. “Three of Zivey’s friends,:Norman Tatleman, Sam Ostrove, and Gary Levinson, asked how they could help,” she recalls. “Their idea was to have a fundraising dinner. We combined the dinner with a lottery. We sold 60 tickets at $1,000 a piece and paid out $15,000 to the winning ticket and lesser amounts to other lucky winners.”
The organization also held annual well attended fundraising teas.
Paul reports that, for years, Chudnow was Shalom Residences’ best fundraiser – with honourable mention to Avrum Katz, Frank Steele, and the late Joe Elfenbaum. Paul took over the role 10 years ago – again with honourable mention to SRFI board members, Dr. Allen Kraut, Peter Leipsic, Donna Chudnow, Jon Feldman, and Mickey Rosenberg.
In addition, the goal was, and remains empowering adults with intellectual disabilities to live meaningful, dignified lives in community-based homes in Winnipeg, enriched by Jewish values.
Charles Tax, the SRFI’s long time president, notes that in 2017, the organization created an endowment fund with the Jewish Foundation of Manitoba. “At the time, we transferred more than half of our assets to the JFM,” he says. “We continue to make contributions to our fund.”
He notes that the annual dinners came to an end with the 20230 Covid lockdowns. The donor appreciation evenings were started in 2023.
“One of our goals is to acquire one or two more houses in the south end,” Tax adds.
Readers who may be interested in attending the donor appreciation evening or otherwise supporting SRFI can contact the office at 204 582-7064 or via email (admin@shalomresidences.com).
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Debbie Maslowsky playing lead role in upcoming Dry Cold Productions musical
By MYRON LOVE For the past 40 years Debbie Maslowsky has been entertaining Winnipeg audiences – both Jewish and non-Jewish, with her acting and singing. Arguably Winnipeg’s queen of musical theatre is returning to the stage on May 13 in a lead role in Dry Cold Productions’ upcoming “Kimberly Akimbo”.
Maslowsky is enthusiastic about the Tony-winning production, which debuted on Broadway in November 2022. “It’s a gem of a musical,” she says of the production crafted by the musical team of composer Jeanine Tesori and lyricist David Lindsay-Abaire.
The subject itself is not – on the surface – uplifting. As Maslowsky describes it, “Kimberly Akimbo” is the story of a teenager suffering from a very rare condition – progeria – also known as the aging disease. The genetic condition causes children to age at an accelerated rate causing them to die of old age while still in their teens. For those readers who may recall Rabbi Harold Kushner’s book, “Why Bad Things Happen to Good People” – written years ago, Kushner was responding to the death of his own son from progeria.
In the hands of Tesori and Lindsay-Abaire though, Maslowsky notes, the show is about mindfulness and living day by day. In the production, Maslowsky explains, “Kimberly is trying to live as normal a life as she can despite her illness. Her life is further complicated by a dysfunctional family. Her parents are dealing with their own issues. Then there is the madcap aunt who develops a complicated and hilarious plan to make money for a family road trip, raise funds for choir costumes – with some left over for herself.
“The play is very funny,” Maslowsky comments, “but also poignant. Kimberly knows that she most likely won’t live much beyond 16. Therefore, she wants to live every day to the fullest. She wants to live every day in the now. At the same time, she doesn’t want to hide from reality. She doesn’t want special treatment. She also doesn’t want people – such as her parents – trying to pretend that everything will be okay.”
Maslowsky last appeared on stage in Winnipeg Jewish Theatre’s one-woman production of “A Pickle” in the spring of 2023. That was the true story of a Jewish pickle maker living in Minnesota who had to fight to get her pickles included in the state fair pickle competition, which tried to disqualify her because her pickles were made the Jewish way through a brining process that the non-Jewish judges refused to accept.
In the interim, Maslowsky has been focusing on her longstanding business as a trade show, conference and event manage,r as well as picking up some singing gigs. She reports that she began winding down her business last fall.
She speaks highly of her younger cast mates. “They are an amazing group of young people,” she says. “For some of them, this is their first show. I myself am still learning new things after all these years.”
Maslowsky will next be appearing in the joint Winnipeg Jewish Theatre-Rainbow Stage production of “Fiddler on the Roof” in September. “I played one of the daughters years ago in an earlier Fiddler production,” she recalls. “I feel like I am coming full circle.”
Dry Cold Productions was founded by Donna Fletcher and Reid Harrison (now retired) more than 25 years ago. The company stages a yearly musical theatre production – sometimes edgy – which has played on Broadway and is new to Winnipeg audiences.
The Dry Cold website cautions that “Kimberly Akimbo” contains “strong language (with frequent profanity), mature humour, and references to sexual activity”.
“Kimberly Akimbo” is scheduled to run May 13–17, 2026 at the Prairie Theatre Exchange. Tickets can be purchased by contacting Dry Cold productions online.
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The second Bar Mitzvah: Better than the first
By GERRY POSNER As we pass down the corridor of life, there are certainly times we can identify as moments we will never forget. I had such a moment on April 11 at my second Bar Mitzvah, at the Shaarey Zedek Synagogue, shared with Dr. Ted Lyons, or E. A. as I called him over the years. We were celebrating this life cycle event at the very same synagogue as the first one, that is – the Shaarey Zede. For me, it was some 70 years ago or 25,557 days – from April 21, 1956 to April 11, 2026. The notion of returning to the original place of Bar Mitzvah 1.0 was too powerful a force, causing me to abandon my plan to do this in Toronto where my wife, Sherna and I have lived for the last 13 plus years.
It was quite the weekend. We started just before Erev Shabbat with photos of our two families on the bimah. Ted had his whole family there, including his daughter Mara, her husband Sheldon, and their two daughters, as well as his son Sami, his wife Rose, and their three kids, all of whom live In Calgary, not to forget his sister Ellen and her husband Howard Goldstein, from Toronto. Our three kids: Ari, Rami and Amira, all of whom live in Toronto, along with two of my grandchildren, as well as my brother Michael from Toronto were also present.
After the Shabbat service, we stayed on in the building for our Shabbat dinner. There were 23 of us, including Michael’s partner, Ruth Grubert, (formerly Mozersky), also a former Winnipegger, as well as Rabbi Mass,his son Ranan, Rabbi Carnie Rose and his wife Pauline. It was a warm group and the dinner was gobbled up and appreciated by all of us. We were all surprised when independently, the respective grandchildren of the Bar Mitzvah “bochers” presented both of us with a kind of tribute – funny and sincere in their affection for their Zaidas.
Then came the big day. It lived up to and even exceeded my expectations. It was a sell-out crowd. I was overwhelmed just at that fact. The only thing missing from the building was the electronic ark. The respective families all participated with aliyahs and indeed Torah readings by Sami Lyons and the 83-year-old Bar Mitzvah boy Ted Lyons. Now, “leyning” from the Torah was not something Ted had done at the first go-round 70 years ago. (In fact, almost all of us were deficient in that area).
One particular moment during the service was especially meaningful for Sherna and me. In the first part of the service, there is a prayer called “Mi Chamocha.” My son Ari had written music for that prayer several years ago and now he was at Shaarey Zedek, where he had his Bar Mitzvah long ago. This time though the clergy had arranged to use his music and to sing his melody. (It had been used many times previously, but without Ari. ) Not only that, he was invited to play his composition at the service as Cantor Leslie Emery sang it. Those few moments – as we watched and listened, at this – my second Bar Mitzvah, at a place where my parents had been members for years and whose names are on the memorial plaque in the chapel, well, that was powerful, to put it mildly.
Ted and his family had various honours as did my family. I was given the Haftorah to chant. Now, I have few talents, but I can chant a Haftroah (not the most marketable skill), so that was not that much of an obstacle for me. In fact, I rather enjoyed doing this part of the service. Rabbi Rose had also given me permission to deliver a D’var Torah on the portion of the week, “Shemini”, and to discuss the meaning of this, my second Bar Mitzvah. Once I had the mic and the stage, I was ready to go in spite of my wife’s protestations that it was too long. And, in fact, as I rolled along into my Haftorah, after about 10 minutes, my parter in the double Bar, Ted, came up from behind me where he was sitting, and nudged me gently, or to put it more accurately, gave me the hook, announcing that it was time to wrap up. It was kind of comical, in fact. I got a large charge from that sudden intervention. To top it off, as I had been speaking, I noticed a congregant on my left near the front who had apparently passed out. It was alarming to me at first, but the medics came and were able to revive this person. I was told later that other first words out of the mouth were “Has he finally finished?”
We concluded the day with a rather large kiddish luncheon highlighted at least for me by traditional party sandwiches, which were a staple of the kiddishes of my youth. I met with so many people of my past, which was a treat and a half for me. I was so into the moment that It was hard to get me out of the building.
As I reflect on the day and the service, I recognized that for all of us, we have times in our lives, whether it be an hour, a day or a week, that we will never forget. This day was for me one such moment. It is etched in my memory to be relived through the Youtube video now in my possession. The gift that keeps on giving, I say.
My first Bar Mitzvah was good, for sure. This one was far better. I knew what I was doing.
Post script (After Gerry had sent us his story, he sent us something else that he said should have been included in the story): True, Ted and I had the Bar Mitzvah no 2. But we only had it because there was one person who did the real work and yet received no credit. She made all the arrangements with the synagogue for both the Friday night Shabbat dinner and the kiddish lunch after the service. She dealt with various people in the synagogue and basically took charge of our simcha. I speak, of course, of Harriet Lyons. That I failed to mention her was due to my excess focus on the eating of the party sandwiches and not enough on the reason we had them in the first place. Harriet teaches the weaving of tallits, but she stands tall in the arranging of Bar Mitzvahs.