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“Rainy River Girl” new account of growing up Jewish in non-Jewish environment
By MYRON LOVE In the first half of the last century, virtually every town and village in North America was home to at least one (and often several) Jewish families – be it the general store owner – or doctor – or, in the case of Toby Gershfield, the dentist.
In her memoir, “Rainy River Girl”, co-written by Gershfield and her, son, James, the daughter of the late Dr. Nathan and Sophie Helman (and granddaughter of the esteemed Rabbi Israel Kahanovitch – western Canada’s foremost rabbi in the interwar years and beyond) recounts her early life in Rainy River, Ontario – a small community about a two hour drive southeast of Winnipeg in the Lake of the Woods area.
For those of us of a certain age – myself included – “Rainy River Girl” brings back memories of growing up Jewish in rural communities where there were few if any other Jewish families. My father’s family, the Kanees, were most closely identified with Melville, Saskatchewan. MY grandparents also operated businesses in several other Saskatchewan communities and I spent my early years in the small town of Shoal Lake in Western Manitoba. We moved into Winnipeg in the mid-1950s just before I turned seven.
In “Rainy River Girl”, Toby Gershfield – who recently turned 91, begins by outlining her family’s origins in Poland and Lithuania, how her parents met, and their decision that her father should become a dentist. She further writes about the history of Rainy River. Then she proceeds to paint vivid pictures of the town and its people in the 1930s, her father’s dental office, the family home, her mother trying to encourage her to learn to play a musical instrument (piano), her father teaching her some Hebrew, her early schooling, and the challenges of a Jewish family trying to keep kosher and follow the traditions in such an alien environment.
She also has a chapter of anecdotes stemming from living with her illustrious zaida. In 19040, when she was 7, her parents sent her to Winnipeg for a year to get some proper Jewish schooling (at the Talmud Torah).
Finally, she writes about the family moving back to Winnipeg , her father enlisting in the Canadian dental corps in 1942 and going off to war in Europe, and his dental practice back in Winnipeg postwar.
“Rainy River Girl” is published by Scribal Scion Publishers, the publishing company that James Gershfield founded in Teaneck, new Jersey, just two years ago. His mother’s memoirs are the fifth book that Scribal Scion has published – the others being Ashkenazi and Sephardi versions of “The Illuminated Omer Counting Book”, “How Jewish laws and Customs Develop Over Time” and, most recently, Rabbi Shawn Zell’s “Meaningful Mourning” (see last issue of the Jewish Post).
James Gershfield has come rather late in life to publishing. Gershfield was born and raised in Manhattan where his father, Winnipeg-born Rabbi Edward Gershfield, was Professor of Talmud and Rabbinics at JTS (the Jewish Theological Seminary of America in Manhattan). Rabbi Gershfield received his ordination at the Jewish Theological Seminary in 1958. He followed that up with two MAs from Columbia and a P.hd from Oxford.
Rabbi Gershfield taught at JTS for four decades. He was also an expert in Jewish divorce, and administered and wrote thousands of Gittin during his career at JTS. Rabbi Gershfield passed away in 2019.
James Gershfield is a graduate of Yeshiva University High School and Columbia University, where he majored in computer science. For most of his career, he was a software developer. A couple of years ago, he decided to change direction and founded Scribal Scion Publishing LLC, a small publishing company dedicated to publishing – under the Scribal Scion imprint – Jewish books that inspire and comfort. Genres include memoir, biography, religion, and comfort for mourners.
Gershfield notes that he is particularly interested in books that bring together Ashkenazi and Sephardi traditions.
“I have always enjoyed books,” Gershfield says. “And with modern technology, it is not difficult to set up a publishing company. The challenge for a small publisher is marketing our books. I hope to grow not only by focusing on Jewish themes but also expanding into self-help and related books via other imprints within the company.”
He reports that he began working with his mother on her memoirs a couple of years ago – after she moved to New Jersey.
He says that his next project is a biography of his father – which is scheduled to be released at the end of this month. Readers who may be interested in buying “Rainy River Girl” can go to Amazon.com. Information about the company can be obtained at scribalscionpublishing.com.
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Shaarey Zedek Sisterhood 60th anniversary interfaith luncheon
By MYRON LOVE On Wednesday, May 28, the Shaarey Zedek Sisterhood hosted its 60th annual interfaith luncheon – with 170 supporters on hand to break bread together, celebrate the Sisterhood’s 95th year in operation – in addition to the luncheon’s diamond anniversary, and enjoy an inspiring presentation by Indigenous business leader and consultant Lisa Lewis, who spoke about the kinship between her people and ours.
The program began with greetings from Lieutenant-Governor Anita Neville and Gail Asper, representing the Shaarey Zedek’s Board of Directors. Asper – the consummate community volunteer – spoke of the importance and benefits of the satisfaction gained from being a volunteer, as well as the important role that the Sisterhood has played in the life of our Jewish community’s oldest and largest congregation – a subject that was subsequently expanded upon by Marisa Hochman – one of the Sisterhood’s three co-presidents (along with Sandy Polanski and Louise Raber).
(Hochman and Raber also co–chaired the luncheon, along with Amy Karlinsky.)
“Our tradition teaches that it is important for us to be part of a community,” Hochman noted in her remarks. “Our Torah teaches that, while G-d is one, it is not good for man to be alone.”
She emphasized the importance in Judaism of balance and harmony as reflected in our rituals and observances – lighting two Shabbat candles, for example, the Commandments being written on two tablets, and in bringing together the four species of plants for the celebration of Sukkot.
“The mitzvah (of the four species),” Hochmanpointed out, ‘is not complete until all four of the elements are brought together – symbolizing that it takes many kinds of people to make a world – and that each of us brings something special to the table. It is only when all of us are working together that we are complete.”
Hochman provided a sampling of some of the ways that the Sisterhood contributes to its members, the synagogue and the wider community: the book club, the tallit-weaving program, monetary donations to the synagogue, support for theological seminaries and other Jewish educational institutions, and Jewish Child and Family Service.
“To me,” she added, “Sisterhood is friendship, community, the power of women working together to create, build and share and the passing on of wisdom and traditions – L’dor V’dor – from generation to generation.
“It is multigenerational, with members ranging in age from 16 into their 90s. A common thread that binds our members is that no matter their age or life circumstances, they are vibrant and engaged with the world around them. They love to learn and help others. They each contain a spark that illuminates.
“Like the glow of the Shabbat candles, we know that, together, we can bring more light and goodness into the world. Together, we definitely shine brighter than we do on our own.”
Following a delicious Shaarey Zedek lunch – salad, party sandwiches and dessert, keynote speaker Lisa Lewis stepped up the microphone. The speaker is a successful business woman, having started “Beyond Excellence Creative Consulting,” which provides tailor-made training and management assistance to a wide range of organizations.
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Shindico celebrates 50th anniversary
(June 11, 2025) Shindico, one of Canada’s leading real estate firms, celebrated its 50th anniversary in typically understated style today. Instead of a lavish banquet in a swank hotel, over 200 Winnipeggers of different stripes gathered in a huge warehouse in St. Boniface to enjoy a variety of different foods served from different food trucks that had been brought onto the parking lot for the occasion in a carnival like atmosphere.
There were no long speeches marking the event. Instead Shindico staff mingled with guests and even the top bosses stood in line to order Philly steaks, french fries, cotton candy, popcorn, drinks, and sundry other food items. And, instead of the kind of swag typically given out at fancy celebrations guests were given simple hats saying “Shindico 50th anniversary.”
That’s the Shindico style we’ve come to expect of Shindico’s founders, Sandy & Robert Shindleman, who are known for understatement in their style of clothing – jeans and work shirts being what they are best known for wearing!
And, if you haven’t already read our story about how Sandy Shindleman came to found Shindico with his brother, Robert, you can read it here: The Sandy Shindleman story.
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Cathy Moser organizing information program and beach party at Camp Massad as part of campaign to raise funds for pioneering Israeli treatment using psychedelic drugs and psychotherapy to treat PTSD
By MYRON LOVE When it comes to fundraising for worthy causes, Dr. Cathy Moser is one of the most creative and innovative people I know.
For over a dozen years, she was the annual Cancercare Manitoba Foundation Challenge for Life entrant Serratus Superstars team leader. Over that time period, Moser and her team raised over $450,000.00 – not only through walking but also through donations from garage sales and bake sales she and her friends organized and concerts organized in their homes.
A few months back, the Jewish Post ran a story about Cathy and her husband Jeff’s newest cause – a campaign to raise money for the Jerusalem Foundation’s new Resilience Centre, a novel treatment center for Israelis suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Aided in fundraising by long time Talmud Torah classmates and friends Donna Weinstein and Gina Chodirker, the Winnipeg couple are pledging to double every dollar donated to the Centre up to $100,000.
As part of that initiative, Moser and her friends are inviting readers to a special event – “Jerusalem at the Lake” on Sunday, June 22, at Camp Massad. The day’s activities will begin at 11:00 with brunch and presentations by Jerusalem Resilience Center directors Dr. Sinai Oren, psychiatrist and psychotherapist, and Pinni Baumol, a social worker who has been working in the area for decades.
That will be followed by a family-friendly beach party from 3:00 to 7:00 featuring activities for all ages. Moser reports that there will be dinner, a live band, Israeli dancing, sports, a heated pool and arts and crafts for the kids. She adds that she, Gina Chodirker and Donna Weinstein recruited several other Talmud Torah/JWC alumni – including Miriam Kohn, Avis Raber, Jackie Winestock, Deborah Fleishman and Gail Thau – to help out.
Moser points out that, according to the Jerusalem Foundation, estimates suggest that over half a million Israelis are suffering from PTSD, as well as other psychological issues, since the Hamas attack on Israel on October 7, 2023, and ensuing war.
“It is not only Israeli soldiers who have been traumatized,” Moser observed in that earlier interview. “Everybody in Israel knows someone who was affected by the attack on October 7. This past year has triggered trauma from past wars as well as intergenerational trauma from the Holocaust.”
In response to this tsunami of trauma that has hit Israelis, the Jerusalem Foundation, soon after the October attack, founded the Resilience Centre – operating out of the Shaare Zedek Hospital. The Resilience Centre utilizes a range of treatments for trauma therapy – including the pioneering use of the drug ketamine, in combination with psychotherapy.
Cathy Moser has been treating patients for the past 40 years. During that time, she says, she has treated victims of physical, sexual and emotional abuse and other horrific life events. Conventional tools and treatments can successfully treat trauma, but some (traumas) are so barbaric and complex that no matter how skilled a clinician is, “we cannot restore one’s lifeforce,’ ” she points out.
Moser initially approached the Jerusalem Resilience Center because of her work in psychedelic medicine. “Last summer, I visited the Reslience Centre,” she says. “I witnessed their treatment efficacy. There are less than a handful of legal psychedelic treatment centers in Israel, and this is a main one.”
Moser notes that readers who are interested in attending this special event and becoming sponsors can contact her at 204 295-3214, Donna Weinstein – 204 540-9869, or Gina Chodirker – 204 218-4803 or email friendsofJRC@gmail.com.
Registration deadline is June 14.
We owe it to our Israeli brothers and sisters to show them that we care about the mental health sacrifices that they are making to defend our homeland. While we happily offer donations for forest and building restoration, this gift will help to restore the ability of those that are traumatized to enjoy life again.
“We are hoping to raise at least $250,000.00 for the Jerusalem Resilience Centre,” Moser says. “That’s a lot of gelt…. but I think we can do it!
It is definitely a worthy cause.”
