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Book Review: “The Matchmaker’s Gift”

By BERNIE BELLAN Given the subject matter of Beatty Cohan’s column elsewhere on this site – online dating, I thought it appropriate to write about a book I recently finished reading, titled “The Matchmaker’s Gift,” by Lynda Cohen Loigman, which was released last fall.
Now, ordinarily, I think it’s fair to presume that a title like that would engender more interest among women than men and, to be honest, I can’t remember why it is that I chose to download this particular book on to my Kindle a couple of months ago. Whatever the reason, I quite enjoyed reading “The Matchmaker’s Gift.” It was only after I had finished reading it, however – and after I had read the author’s notes, that I discovered I had also read the very first book Cohen Loigman had written, titled “The Two-Family House,” which was published in 2016.
That book had been chosen for what was then known as “The People of the Book Club” at the Rady JCC by the late Sharon Freed, who was the facilitator for that club. But, why would I write that I would think a book about matchmaking would be of particular interest to women? Maybe it’s because we tend to associate the profession of matchmaking with “Yenta the Matchmaker” from “Fiddler on the Roof,” more than anything else.
But, as I discovered during the course of reading “The Matchmaker’s Gift,” at least in New York in the early part of the 20th century, matchmaking as a profession within the Jewish community was reserved for men. In fact, that becomes one of the principal themes of the book, as we are introduced to a character by the name of Sara Glikman, who discovers, unbeknownst to her, that she has a rare and secret talent whereby she is able to determine a perfect match between two total strangers through some mystical power that she possesses.
In an earlier age no doubt Sara would have probably been considered a witch within different cultures. The notion of someone having fantastical powers is, of course, an enduring theme throughout history, and when those powers are set within a modern day context, they often become a source of amusement, as in all the superpower heroes that have come to dominate a good part of our culture.
Yet, in “The Matchmaker’s Gift,” Sara Glikman neither chooses to practice matchmaking nor does she relish the opportunity to engage in the craft. She simply comes to realize that she has a unique gift for being able to put unlikely couples together.
Parallel to Sara’s story we come to read about Sara’s granddaughter, Abby, who is a young lawyer in New York, and someone totally removed from the world of matchmaking – or so we are led to believe.
Cohen-Loigman interweaves the story of Sara’s forays into matchmaking with Abby’s very demanding legal career. The element that both women have in common is that they are able to recognize when two people are right for each other or, as is the case with Abby while she is working for a very hard driving attorney who specialized in putting together pre-nup agreements: when two people who are headed toward marriage – and seem to be compatible on the surface – are not at all right for each other.
Given how common it was for our ancestors to have been put together by way of a “shidduch,” or “match,” I’m sure that most of us would have wondered how those long-ago marriages would have worked out in this day and age. I can well recall watching my own maternal grandparents engaged in fierce arguments over the years when I was growing up. I wasn’t close enough to my paternal grandparents to notice whether the same applied to them, but while reading “The Matchmaker’s Gift,” memories of what seemed to be odd marriages did re-enter my mind.
Sara Glikman though, as talented as she may be with her supernatural ability to anticipate when two total strangers would make perfectly attuned marriage partners, does come up against the prevailing practice of the day, which is to have only men arrange marriages. Since she must keep her unique ability a secret, her carefully thought-out plans to bring various couples together once she discovers that they are meant for one another rely upon a great deal of deception and planned accidental meetings.
Once the male matchmakers of New York come to be aware of Sara’s forays into their world, however, she is brought forward in a “bet din” (house of judgment) where she is forced to account for her behavior.
Similarly, Sara’s granddaughter, Abby, has to defend herself when she is exposed as having intervened in a number of situations, either to stave off a doomed relationship or to facilitate one among unlikely mates. Her boss, Evelyn Morgan, is the consummate hard driving career woman who herself has no time for romance and once she realizes that Abby has actually been sabotaging Evelyn’s meticulous pre-nup work, all hell breaks loose.
It’s all quite endearing and really quite fantastical, but at the same time, after reading all of the information Beatty Cohan gives about online dating in her column this issue and how prominent a role it plays in determining relationships, especially, as Beatty notes, among gay men, I was intrigued enough to want to do more research about online dating among Jews in particular.
While it is still the case that, within the Orthodox Jewish community, the role of “matchmaker” is accorded a very special prominence, many non-Orthodox Jews also rely upon matchmakers, it turns out, especially within cities that have high Jewish populations.
According to an article on the “Israel Hayom” or “Israel Today” website, matchmaking among Jews has zoomed upwards in popularity since Covid. Many individuals were dissatisfied with such well-known apps as “JDate,” although a related app, “JSwipe,” has become the most popular app among Jews using apps to look for a relationship with other Jews.
According to that article, which you can find at ttps://www.israelhayom.com/2022/06/17/jewish-dating-game-sees-matchmaking-become-hottest-trend-in-us/, the frustration that so many Jewish users have had in using dating apps has contributed to a skyrocketing use of matchmaking within the Jewish community.
But, in “The Matchmaker’s Gift,” the notion that matchmaking would be superior to other forms of finding a mate is actually made fun of. Both Sara Glikman and her granddaughter Abby fight against prevailing ideas about matchmaking. Instead of seeing elements in common between the men and women who eventually end up getting matched by both Sara and Abby, they rely on some sort of mystical intervention to reveal who is best suited to whom. (Sara actually sees a “strand of golden light” forming a line between two strangers throughout her life.) Later, upon reading her grandmother’s journals, in which she has meticulously documented each of her matches, Abby at first scoffs at what she is reading, then comes to realize that everything was true.
It all makes for a terrific yarn, but in the end, perhaps the lesson to be learned, both from “The Matchmaker’s Gift” and what is going on in the contemporary Jewish dating world is that whatever works is valid.

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Jewish Entrepreneurship: Navigating Business Success in Canada

Canada has lots of businesses with creative people from different backgrounds. Some of these entrepreneurs are Jewish, and they have made a special mark on Canada’s economy. Before you get into the details, check out Betamo for the latest odds on live sports betting.

The Genesis of Entrepreneurship
Arriving in Canada, Jewish people worked hard and began businesses during challenging times. They wanted to make money and help Canada grow. This early effort still affects how Jewish people do business and has a lasting impact on Canada.

Jewish immigrants in Canada began small businesses. Today, their entrepreneurial spirit continues. They’ve adapted well and play a big role in different industries. These entrepreneurs are innovative, adaptable, and committed to business and community success. Over time, Jewish entrepreneurship has strongly influenced and improved the Canadian economy.

From Mom-and-Pop Shops to Tech Innovators
Jewish businesses in Canada have often started small and grown big. Many businesses began as family-run shops, like corner stores and tailoring shops. They didn’t just make money, but also brought communities together.

Entrepreneurs continue to thrive, especially in technology today. They’ve seamlessly entered the tech industry, bringing new ideas and making significant contributions. This highlights the enduring impact of Jewish entrepreneurship on Canada’s ever-changing business scene.

Overcoming Challenges with Tenacity
Jewish entrepreneurs in Canada face challenges, especially during economic downturns. They use their skills and determination to navigate unpredictable market changes. Despite tough times, they demonstrate the ability to handle adversity. Being resilient is important. It helps them learn from challenges and use them as opportunities for new ideas.

The strong determination of Jewish entrepreneurs in Canada helps them keep going, even when things get tough. Instead of giving in to challenges, they use setbacks as a way to move forward and succeed. Facing challenges head-on makes you stronger and can lead to excellence in entrepreneurship.

Building Bridges through Philanthropy
Jewish entrepreneurs succeed by giving back to their communities. It’s not just about business; it reflects their cultural values. As they do well in business, helping communities becomes a priority. Success means more than personal achievements; it’s about making society better for everyone.

Cultivating Mentorship and Networking
In Jewish entrepreneurship, mentorship and networking are key. Entrepreneurs help each other out and build relationships beyond business. Within this community, mentorship is vital. It’s about passing down knowledge and experience to the next generation. This supportive culture keeps innovation and success going strong.

Within many Canadian Jewish-owned businesses, making connections with mentors and building networks is like creating a strong web. It’s not just about personal growth, but also about making the whole community stronger together. This goes beyond regular business ideas and focuses on forming real, meaningful relationships.

The Role of Jewish Community Institutions
Places like synagogues and cultural centers are important for new entrepreneurs in Canada. They’re not just for religious or cultural activities; they’re also great for businesses to grow. These spots don’t just give a space; they host events and programs to connect people. Jewish entrepreneurs enjoy community places to learn, share ideas, and make friends with people who think alike. Working together in these spots helps Jewish businesses grow all across Canada.

Jewish community places are involved in more than events. They help entrepreneurs by talking, sharing ideas, and creating a friendly community. Synagogues and cultural centers help Jewish business owners succeed and contribute to Canada. These places don’t just talk about business; they encourage it. They create a community where sharing ideas and working together are important for entrepreneurs.

Innovation in the Face of Change
In Canada’s business world, it’s crucial to adapt. Jewish entrepreneurs excel at coming up with new ideas when things change. They use technology to improve their businesses, work faster, and connect with more customers. Focusing on tech helps them stay ahead because not changing can make you fall behind.

Canadian Jewish entrepreneurs care about being eco-friendly. They use green technologies and make sure to get materials in a responsible way. These entrepreneurs don’t just get by; they focus on doing well in both business and society despite changes.

Celebrating Diversity within Jewish Entrepreneurship
Having diverse people isn’t just about having differences; it makes things better. Celebrating how Jewish entrepreneurs think and work creates a society that includes everyone. Appreciating each entrepreneur’s skills brings new ideas and success. Different ideas make businesses better and bring people together.

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The secret to maintaining a healthy and balanced diet for your family

The key to maintaining a healthy lifestyle is starting young. As people with heart-related conditions increase, parents must instill healthy eating habits that can be a bonus for their children.
This article explores the importance of developing a healthy heart health plan from the very beginning. It will introduce you to some of the key ingredients that can help strengthen your family’s diet.
The Bedrock of Heart Health Begins in Youth
Getting the message about heart health early in life is very important to help children develop a healthy lifestyle. It can help them make informed decisions when it comes to their diet. This is also about creating a culture that values the importance of healthy eating.
The Power of Seafood in a Heart-Healthy Diet
One of the most important components of a healthy diet is the addition of seafood. Fish, such as salmon, tuna, and sardines, are rich in omega-3 fats, which can help lower blood pressure and reduce the risk of heart disease. Even though these common choices are great, the magic doesn’t stop there. There are also countless other ways to enjoy seafood that could be more well-known.
Seafood Gumbo: A Heart-Healthy Culinary Delight
One of the most popular ways to enjoy seafood is through a seafood gumbo. This dish is filled with hearty ingredients and is a great example of how healthy eating can still taste great.
The addition of seafood in a gumbo recipe provides a potent dose of omega-3 fatty acids. Its healthy ingredients also help boost its nutritional value. This dish can be prepared with a variety of vegetables and is a great addition to any family meal. Having a bowl of this dish can warm the soul and nourish the body.
The Versatility of Seafood in Family Meals
Adding seafood to family meals can have a huge impact on cardiovascular health. There are many ways to prepare seafood dishes that cater to varying palates.
You can create a variety of seafood dishes that are perfect for any family meal, such as shrimp stir-fry, baked cod, and grilled salmon. Each of these dishes has its own unique flavor and nutrients, making them an exciting and nutritious addition to any meal. By teaching children about the various ways to prepare seafood, they can develop an interest in learning more about heart health.
Embracing Whole Grains and Fiber-Rich Foods
Fiber-rich food and whole grains are vital components of the dietary landscape in promoting heart health. Whole wheat, brown rice, and quinoa are examples of foods that are filled with nutrients such as fiber, which can help lower cholesterol.
Being able to incorporate these into family meals is both delicious and simple. For example, adding whole-grain bread or brown rice to a breakfast routine can make a significant impact on the family’s diet.
The Role of Fruits and Vegetables
Vegetables and fruits are vital components of a heart-healthy diet as they contain powerful antioxidants, minerals, and vitamins that can help fend off cardiovascular disease.
Creating a colorful “rainbow” on your plate can help ensure that a wide variety of nutrients are consumed. Creative presentation and kids’ participation in the cooking process can make adding vegetables and fruits more fun and appealing.
Limiting Processed Foods and Sugars
While it’s important to include healthy ingredients in the diet, it’s also important to minimize the consumption of processed food and sugary drinks. Their high levels of added sugars, unhealthy fats, and salt can negatively affect one’s heart health.
To minimize the consumption of these products, it’s important that the family is taught about the nutrition labels of food and makes conscious decisions at the grocery store. Doing so can help promote a culture of healthy eating.
The Importance of Regular Physical Activity
A heart-healthy diet and regular physical activity go hand-in-hand. Encouraging the family to get active not only helps promote cardiovascular health, it also fosters a stronger bond among household members. Whether it’s a stroll, a vigorous hike, or a family bonding activity, such activities promote a wholesome heart and a resilient unit.
Cultivating a Heart-Healthy Kitchen
Embracing a heart-healthy diet requires cultivating a supportive environment that encourages the appropriate choices.
Educating the Family
Getting the family informed about the importance of a healthy diet can help motivate everyone to make better decisions.
Creative Cooking
Try incorporating healthy ingredients into recipes that are fun and flavorful. The kitchen should serve as a place of joy and discovery.
Leading by Example
Kids learn by example. Whenever parents make conscious decisions regarding their health, they inspire them to do the same.
Accessibility
Make sure that the ingredients and snacks that are heart-healthy are easily accessible. Healthy options are more likely to be chosen when they are made more accessible.
Building a Supportive Community
Extending beyond the immediate family can also help create a supportive environment that encourages the development of a heart-healthy lifestyle. It can be as simple as joining online forums that are focused on heart-healthy living or sharing recipes with friends. A supportive community helps individuals maintain their commitment to a healthier lifestyle.
Final Thoughts
The key to creating a heart-healthy diet for the entire family is making conscious choices regarding food. By introducing healthy ingredients such as seafood into their meals, families can have a variety of options that support cardiovascular health.

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Bobbie Rosenfeld: Canada’s Trailblazing Athlete and Advocate

Bobbie Rosenfeld was a force to be reckoned with. Not only was she a phenomenal athlete, excelling in both basketball and baseball, but she also became a fierce advocate for gender equality in sports. Her story is one of exceptional talent, unwavering determination, and a fight for change that paved the way for future generations of female athletes in Canada and beyond.

Early Life and Athletic Beginnings

Rosenfeld grew up in Montreal, Quebec, in a family that instilled a love of sports in her. Her father, a dentist, and her mother, a homemaker, encouraged Bobbie and her younger brother to participate in various athletic activities. Bobbie’s exceptional talent for basketball became evident early on. She honed her skills playing in local leagues and quickly established herself as a standout player. Her height, agility, and strategic mind for the game made her a formidable force on the court.

Meanwhile, Bobbie’s passion for baseball also blossomed. At a time when girls were largely discouraged from playing baseball, Bobbie defied expectations. She joined a boys’ league, disguising herself as a boy named Bobby Rosenfeld. Her talent was undeniable, and she thrived in the competitive environment. However, her true identity was eventually discovered, forcing her out of the league. This incident highlighted the stark gender inequalities prevalent in sports during that era.

Basketball Stardom and International Recognition

Undeterred by the setback in baseball, Bobbie poured her focus into basketball. Her dedication and talent paid off. She played for the Montreal YM-YWHA Wildcats, a dominant team that won numerous provincial and national championships. Bobbie’s exceptional skills earned her a spot on the Canadian women’s national basketball team in 1963. She quickly became a key player, leading the team to victory at the 1964 Pan American Games in Brazil.

Rosenfeld’s international success continued. She was part of the Canadian team participating in the 1967 FIBA World Championship for Women in Czechoslovakia. Though Canada placed sixth, Bobbie’s individual brilliance shone through. She was the tournament’s leading scorer, a testament to her offensive prowess. Her talent and leadership on the court garnered her recognition as one of the best female basketball players in the world.

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Breaking Barriers

Despite her athletic achievements, Rosenfeld faced constant challenges due to gender discrimination. Female athletes received little to no media coverage compared to their male counterparts. Opportunities for professional careers in women’s sports were virtually nonexistent. Funding for women’s athletic programs was scarce, hindering training and development.

Rosenfeld refused to accept the status quo. She became a vocal advocate for gender equality in sports. She used her platform as a star athlete to speak out against discrimination and demand better opportunities for female athletes. Bobbie and other pioneering women athletes lobbied for increased media coverage, improved funding for women’s sports programs, and the creation of professional leagues for women.

Her fight for equality extended beyond basketball. Rosenfeld and Judith Pogson, another prominent Canadian athlete, played a pivotal role in getting baseball officially recognized as a women’s sport in Canada in 1970. This decision opened doors for countless young girls who, like Rosenfeld, harbored a passion for baseball.

Beyond Athletics

Rosenfeld’s athletic career was tragically cut short in 1970 due to a car accident. However, her impact on Canadian sports and beyond continued to resonate. She became a symbol of athletic excellence and a tireless advocate for gender equality. Her legacy inspired a generation of female athletes to pursue their dreams and challenge the existing structures that limited their opportunities.

In recognition of her achievements, Bobbie Rosenfeld was inducted into the Canadian Basketball Hall of Fame in 1985 and Canada’s Sports Hall of Fame in 1995. Her story continues to be a source of inspiration for young athletes, particularly girls, who strive for excellence in sports.

Final Thoughts

Bobbie Rosenfeld’s legacy extends far beyond her athletic achievements. She was a trailblazer who fought for equality and paved the way for future generations of female athletes. Her unwavering determination, exceptional talent, and unwavering commitment to social justice continue to inspire athletes and advocates for equality today. Bobbie Rosenfeld’s story reminds us that courage, dedication, and a strong voice can break even the most significant barriers.

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