Obituaries
ALAN HOWARD BERNSTEIN 1949 – 2017
After a courageous battle with cancer, Alan passed away peacefully at the age of 67 with his loving family and friends by his side.
Alan was predeceased by his parents Evelyn and David Bernstein. Left to cherish his memory are his loving wife Donna; daughter Lisa; son Mike (Katia); sister Joanne (Larry); brothers Richard (Rene) and Brian (Elizabeth); Donna’s brother Larry; and his nieces and nephews David, Laura (Lisa), Sarah, Davey, Arran, Jenny (Daniel). Also his faithful companion and good boy Benny.
Alan was born in Winnipeg and grew up in River Heights. He attended Brock Corydon School, J.B. Mitchell School, Grant Park High School and graduated from the University of Winnipeg in 1976.
Alan had a true zest for life and made friends wherever he went. He was always enthusiastic, loved to kibbitz and had the ability to tell the best stories. He paved his own way with drive, motivation and perseverance. He was passionate about sports, the stock market and anything to do with cars and engines. He loved racing and in his early years was known for having some of the fastest cars in Winnipeg.
Alan was a dreamer, a gifted salesman and had a creative eye. He had an intuitive sense of business, beginning his career at Silverman Jewellers and carrying those talents through to his finest professional achievement in starting his own company, Hangers Fashion Warehouse. Hangers was created in 1990 with the love and support of his wife, Donna. He began with one flagship store and grew the chain to 31 stores from British Columbia to the Maritimes. Alan was always known for his sharp negotiating skills and special way with people.
One of Alan’s favourite pastimes was heading out to the Lake of the Woods with his family. He loved to sit on the water while the waves gently rocked the boat. The lake truly nourished his soul. He also loved getting people together and having celebrations and barbecues at the pool on Aldershot.
Alan loved his family fiercely and cared so much for everyone in his life. Alan was a wonderful and attentive father who raised two beautiful children in Lisa and Mike. They were crazy about their Dad and he was so proud of their accomplishments and who they became as adults. Alan just adored being with everyone and would truly move mountains for his loved ones.
Alan loved to travel, see the sights and organize adventures. In 2011, when Alan and Donna retired, they created wonderful memories when they travelled to London and Paris.
Later on, in retirement, he transitioned that love of getting people together by founding a breakfast club to reconnect with old friends from his past and bringing new people together.
Alan was so fond of music and was a great piano and violin player. He could listen to a piece of music, sit down and proceed to play the whole piece from memory. He later tried his hand at the guitar and loved to have people over for a jam session in his music room.
He was a loving husband, a devoted father, a caring family man, a determined fighter, a hunter for the best new toy or gadget, a wonderful friend and a true character. The world will miss such a beautiful and special soul.
Thank you to all the staff at CancerCare Manitoba and Riverview Health Centre for your care and compassion and for making Alan’s journey as comfortable and painless as possible.
A celebration of Alan’s life was held on Sunday, November 26, 2017, at the Shaarey Zedek Synagogue, Rabbi Matthew Leibl officiated, with interment at the Shaarey Zedek Cemetery. Pallbearers were Larry Pudavick, Arran Pudavick, David Sheps, Laura Sheps, Ian Kasloff and Tom Dojack. Honourary pallbearers were Larry Rice, Izia Mirski and Jack Lezack.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to CancerCare Manitoba or the charity of your choice. –
You left us with beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You’ll always be by our side. –
Obituaries
RUTH KLAPMAN December 20, 1929 – September 24, 2025
It is with great sorrow that we announce the passing of our mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and aunt, Ruth Klapman.
Ruth lived a full life surrounded by family and friends. She was devoted to her late husband, Sam, her partner for 68 years. Together, they brought joy to every gathering-always the first to dance and the last to say goodbye.
Ruth was deeply committed to volunteer work. She gave her time to organizations including Hadassah, ORT, the National Council of Jewish Women, Pioneer Women, and the Women’s Endowment Fund. She chaired the ORT thrift store for 14 years, and she sang in Israel as a member of the Rosh Pina Synagogue Choir.
Ruth spent every summer at Winnipeg Beach, sharing komish and other treats with generations of neighbourhood children who would visit the cottage throughout the day. She was everybody’s ‘Bubbie’. Winters were spent in Palm Springs, welcoming her children and grandchildren for fun in the sun.
Ruth was a true party person who loved spending time with friends and hosting family gatherings. Her home was a place where people came together to share meals, stories, and laughter. She enjoyed travelling the world and never refusing an invitation, no matter where it was.
Mother to Sandi (Sam Malamud), Marla Bernstein, Hartley (Drew Salter), and Jody (Brian Goldberg); grandmother to Andrew (Hilary), Allan (Alona), Aaron (Alanna), Jason (Lindsay), Steven (Alexis), Dana (Tom), Brady (Matt), Carly (Jay), Hanna (Gaby), and Kevin (Ilana).
Great-grandmother to Florie, Stan, Juniper, Angus, Isaac, Otto, Cole, Chase, Charlotte, Rory, Mason, and Romi; sister-in-law to Sandy Youssiem; Auntie Ruthie to many nieces and nephews.
Ruth was predeceased by her husband Sam, her parents Reuben and Rose Youssiem, and her brother Saul Youssiem.
A special thank you to Marivel Toledo for her many years of care and dedication, and to Lorna Allen and Fabi Patriarca for their great support.
Thank you to Rabbi Matthew Leibl for officiating the funeral service, which took place on September 26, 2025, at Shaarey Zedek Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Ruth and Sam Klapman Fund at the Jewish Foundation of Manitoba, 204-477-7520.
Obituaries
JEROME AVERY
April 2, 1945 – September 11, 2025
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Jerome Avery, who passed away with his family by his side on September 11, 2025, at the age of 80.
Jerome was born in Winnipeg, Manitoba, to Allan and Diane Avery. He was married to the love of his life, Karen, for 46 years, until her passing. Jerome was blessed to find love and companionship again with Sergia, who he cared deeply for.
Jerome treasured being “Zaida” to his grandchildren, Danica, Alexis, and Nathan. Jerome is survived by his loving children, Robyn (Don) and Tammy (Chris); his grandchildren Danica (Benny), Alexis (Brett), and Nathan; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his wife Karen, his parents Allan and Diane Avery, and his in-laws Nathan and Rose Sarbit.
His smile lit up a room bringing joy and comfort to all who knew him.
Obituaries
RITA SHAPERA (née SILVERMAN)
March 22, 1929 – September 2, 2025
It is with deep sadness that the family of Rita Shapera announces her passing on September 2, 2025, at the age of 96.
Born in Winnipeg to Isadore and Dolly Silverman, Rita grew up in the North End during the Depression yet always remembered her childhood as joyful and full of warmth. A striking beauty, her brother Gerry joked that he was bribed with chocolate by hopeful suitors! It was Dr. Monty Shapera, however, who won her heart, and they married in 1949.
Together, Rita and Monty moved to Flin Flon to establish his dental practice. What was meant to be a short stay blossomed into a decade filled with community, friendship, and the arrival of their three children. Returning to Winnipeg, Rita poured her boundless creativity and impeccable eye for design into building their River Heights home. A gifted cook, baker, and hostess, she made her home a gathering place brimming with love, laughter, and warmth.
Rita adored the famously purple family cottage at Winnipeg Beach, where her love of gardening and swimming took root. She relished travel – especially to Maui – along with bridge games with her circle of friends, evenings at the symphony, and years of community service with Hadassah, Kiwanis, and the Shaarey Zedek Sisterhood.
When Monty passed away in 1990, Rita embraced her role as a devoted grandmother and found joy in winters spent in Palm Springs. In 1996, she was blessed to find love again with Ted Jacob. Their marriage was filled with laughter, affection, and a partnership reminiscent of Burns and Allen. She cherished her bond with Teddy’s children, and though his passing in 2003 was another heartbreak, Rita described their time together as “perfect.”
Rita’s warmth, empathy, and radiant spirit made her a friend to all – whether across a bridge table, in her volunteer work, or even in a casual conversation while waiting in line. She embodied generosity and unconditional love, and as she often said, “I’ve had an amazing life.”
Rita is survived by her children, Nolan (Lori), Caryn Martin (Dr. Paul Martin), and Blair (Lois Vincent); her grandchildren, Tali, Ilyssa, Cale (Hannah), Ilana (Igal), Jordan, Mika (Nate), Shaan, and Eli; and her great-grandchildren, Lev, Theo, Shai, Llewyn, and Jaxx. She is also lovingly remembered by her brother Dr. Gerald (Pauline) Silverman. She was predeceased by her parents, her sister Sheila (Al Linder), and her husbands, Dr. Monty Shapera and Ted Jacob.
The family extends heartfelt thanks to the dedicated care providers at Shaftesbury Park, the Simkin Centre, St. Boniface Hospital, and especially to Paulina Trinidad for her compassionate care.
Rita’s legacy is one of love, resilience, and joy. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered by her family and all who were fortunate enough to know her.
Donations in Rita’s memory can be made to Winnipeg Children’s Hospital or Diabetes Canada.