With great sadness we announce that beloved husband, father, Zaida, Benny Hochman, passed away on Saturday, October 14, 2023, in Winnipeg, after a courageous battle with Cancer.
Left to cherish his memory are his loving wife, Phyllis, his daughter, Paula (Warren Zimmerman), his “whole life and entire world”, his granddaughter, Abby, his sister, Clara Berkowitz, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and friends.
Benny was born in Winnipeg in 1936 to Abraham and Rose Hochman. He was the youngest of 9 children, one of whom passed away in Poland. He was pre-deceased by his siblings Florence, Betty, Sarah, Dora, Gordon, and his twin brother, Sammy.
Benny attended Aberdeen and Champlain Elementary, Machray Junior High, and St. John’s High School. Peretz Shul and the Talmud Torah provided his Jewish Education.
He started working at age 17 at his father’s store, The Oasis Delicatessen. Benny worked tirelessly with his father and brothers to build the Oasis into a successful business and a North End landmark. The Oasis closed in 1984, but the incredible atmosphere of fun and hospitality that drew people to the Oasis, will always be remembered by those who were privileged to walk through its doors.
Through the course of his life, Benny never stopped moving. When he was not working, he was playing soccer, dancing, and leading his friends on adventures through the vibrant streets of the North End. Later in life, he developed a passion for lawn bowling where he became a beloved coach and instructor.
Benny had a rare gift. He made everyone he met feel comfortable and important. He was genuinely interested in people and when you spoke to him, you received his full attention. Wherever he went, he made friends. He was a true definition of the word ‘mentsch’.
Family was of utmost importance to him. He regularly visited his sisters in nursing homes, took them out to lunch, and provided them with anything they needed. His wife, Phyllis, was the love of his life. They had a beautiful marriage for 53 wonderful years, always taking care of each other. As a father, there was nothing he could not do, fix, or make better for his only child, Paula. As a Zaida, he gave everything he had to his precious Abby. They were truly the best of friends. Benny felt that the best thing to do was give his time to his family and make memories. The memories will live forever in our hearts.
The funeral was held on Monday, October 16, 2023, at Chesed Shel Emes with burial at Rosh Pina Memorial Park, presided by Rabbi Kliel Rose. Pallbearers were Warren Zimmerman, Michael Hochman, Larry Hochman, Sherman Greenfeld, Marty Greenfeld, and Stephen Segal. If desired, contributions can be made to CancerCare Manitoba, The Jewish Foundation of Manitoba, or a charity of your choice.