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“Narrow Bridge” offers wonderful lesson in understanding the struggles individuals go through in grappling with questions of identity – in an often quite humorous fashion
Review by BERNIE BELLAN
Is it possible to produce a play that tackles the tremendous pressure any individual deciding to undergo a gender transformation must feel in a way that is both fascinating, yet very amusing? Add to that pressure yet more pressure though when not only is that individual changing their gender, they’re also becoming increasingly drawn to an orthodox form of their religion.
Such is the storyline of Winnipeg Jewish Theatre’s newest production, “Narrow Bridge,” written by Winnipeg playwright Daniel Thau-Eleff – on now at the Berney Theatre in the Asper Campus until March 19.
Although I was somewhat familiar with the background to this particular play (having followed its long development process and the many twists and turns it took until it was finally mounted this year), watching “Narrow Bridge” in a preview performance on Thursday, March 9, left me thinking that the work that had gone into honing “Narrow Bridge” from simply an idea for a story that began 10 years ago into a play that is at once riveting, amusing, and highly educational has been well worth it.
The play opens with the protagonist, played by Elio Zarillo, who is identified as “Sholem” in the playbill, explaining to the audience that – at this point in their life, they are a woman whose name is “Samantha” (or “Shoshana” in Hebrew). (And, despite the antagonism exhibited by so many conservatives to the use of “they” as a pronoun in place of “he” or “she”, while watching this play it is totally apparent why a non-specific pronoun is perfectly appropriate for non-binary individuals. Still, don’t be mistaken into thinking “Narrow Bridge” is some sort of didactic lesson in gender politics. Far from it.)
Samantha is soon joined on stage by sister Naomi, played by Alissa Watson, and mother Elaine, played by Rhea Ekler. Naomi announces that is she going to be married in six weeks to her boyfriend, Kevin, who is about to convert to Judaism. The dialogue in the opening scene is fast paced and often quite humorous.
Soon enough the action moves to a local Orthodox synagogue, where we are introduced to “Mendel,” played by WJT veteran Harry Nelken. If ever there was a perfect fit for a local actor to play an Orthodox Jewish scholar, Harry Nelken is it. Not only does he look every bit the part of an older Orthodox Jew, when he offers dissertations on the Talmud, which he does from time to time through the First Act, he is absolutely convincing as a scholar.
Moreover, as much as one might expect that expositions on certain parts of the Talmud might be somewhat dry – to say the least, Thau-Eleff clearly has a deep understanding both of the Talmud and Jewish history. There is a recurrent reference to the “Sanhedrin” (which, as is explained in the play, was the Jewish high court in the time of the Temple) in “Narrow Bridge”, and although I myself grew up learning about the Sanhedrin, having attended Jewish day school, Mendel’s explanation of how the Sanhedrin worked is quite illuminating.
Samantha’s increasing fascination with the Talmud, strange as it may seem in our modern-day world, is given great credibility by the back and forth dialogue between Samantha and Mendel. Samantha puts her quest for wanting to know more about Judaism in the form of one succinct question to Mendel, that sums up much of what this play is about: “What does it mean to be Jewish?”
Does it help though to have a familiarity with the Talmud and Jewish rituals, such as which occur during Shaabat on Friday evenings in observant Jewish homes, in order to fully understand what is going on in “Narrow Bridge?” I’m honestly not sure. I would rather expect, however, that any audience member who is interested in learning about what would motivate someone who is not Orthodox to begin with to want to become Orthodox, regardless of that audience member’s own background, would find much of what “Narrow Bridge” has to offer quite moving.
As the play develops, a good part of the First Act is taken up with Naomi’s upcoming wedding – and Samantha’s clear reluctance to play a major role in that wedding, notwithstanding Naomi’s request that Samantha be her maid of honor.
Again, there are plenty of clever exchanges between characters – with many pithy observations brought forward. At one point prior to the wedding, when tempers are running high, Naomi says to Samantha – in reaction to something their mother has just said: “There is one thing you have to understand about Jewish families. Everything is a matter of life and death!”
The First Act ends with the actual wedding. Suffice to say it’s not a Hallmark movie wedding.
As we learn more about Samantha’s transformation into Sholem in the Second Act, we also learn more about much of the negativity within the Orthodox Jewish community toward gay, bi, and transgendered Jewish individuals who would still like to remain observant. Thau-Eleff’s treatment of what is a highly contentious subject within the Orthodox world is done though with the utmost sensitivity. There is no condescension in how he depicts Mendel’s refusal to accept Sholem’s gender transformation.
Ultimately, Sholem does find his place within the observant Jewish community – largely thanks to the constant encouragement and support of his mother.
“Narrow Bridge” takes on some very tough subjects – with its recurrent theme being a search for identity – or identities, as the case may be.
Each of the actors handles their role with great sensitivity. Sure, there are many laughs, but there is also a great deal of heartbreak. No doubt a play like “Narrow Bridge” will resonate most deeply with a liberal audience – Jewish or non-Jewish, but it would have a clear meaning for anyone who has either struggled with finding their identity – or watched someone near and dear go though that struggle.
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Nakba exhibit at human rights museum set to open despite mounting criticism
By NOAH STRAUSS (posted June 25) The Canadian Museum for Human Rights’ Nakba exhibit is scheduled to open this Saturday, June 27, despite growing criticism and calls for it to be delayed or revised. The exhibit has sparked public debate in Winnipeg and beyond regarding how it presents the history surrounding the creation of the State of Israel.
Earlier this week, Mark Berlin resigned from the museum’s board. In his resignation letter, he expressed concern that the exhibit presents a one-sided narrative and does not adequately address the experiences of Jewish communities affected by the events surrounding Israel’s independence.
The Nakba, an Arabic word meaning “catastrophe,” refers to the displacement of hundreds of thousands of Palestinians during the 1947–1949 conflict that followed the creation of the State of Israel. Critics of the exhibit argue that it focuses primarily on Palestinian displacement without sufficiently acknowledging the broader regional consequences of the period.
Some Jewish advocacy groups also point to the experiences of Jews who left or were expelled from several Arab and Muslim-majority countries in the decades surrounding Israel’s creation. Estimates suggest that between 850,000 and 950,000 Jews left or were displaced from countries including Iraq, Egypt, and Yemen, under a range of circumstances including persecution, expulsion, and confiscation of property.
In his resignation letter, Berlin, a faculty member at McGill University specializing in human rights law, wrote, “Telling the story with a one-sided perspective chosen by the museum serves to deepen division and contributes to further hostility toward Jews in Canada.”
Following his resignation, CIJA President Noah Shack released a statement saying, “The resignation of the museum’s only Jewish board member is a clear indictment of the museum’s handling of the controversial ‘Nakba’ exhibit.”
The exhibit’s VIP opening is expected to include invitations to representatives from all three levels of government. Winnipeg Mayor Scott Gillingham had initially been invited but later declined following discussions with representatives from the Jewish community, including CIJA Manitoba Vice President Gustavo Zentner and Jeff Lieberman, President and CEO of the Jewish Federation of Winnipeg.
Members of Winnipeg’s Jewish community are also planning a peaceful rally outside the museum on Friday at 5 p.m., according to organizers.
The Canadian Museum for Human Rights is expected to release a formal statement ahead of the exhibit’s opening.
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Jewish Child and Family Service helped over 1800 families in 2025
By BERNIE BELLAN Jewish Child and Family Service will be entering the 75th year of its existence in 2027.
With a budget over $4,300,000, JCFS is also the largest beneficiary of funding from the Jewish Federation of the 12 Winnipeg Jewish community agencies that are beneficiaries of the Federation. (To see a list of the 12 agencies go to Funding for Beneficiary Agencies.)
Its impact has grown over the years as JCFS has expanded its horizon, continually adding to the many services it provides. During the JCFS’s Annual General Meeting, held in the Seniors’ Lounge of the Asper Campus on Tuesday evening, June 23, the important role that JCFS plays in the lives of so many members of the Jewish community – also a significant number of non-Jews as well, various speakers cited the many ways in which JCFS has continued to have such a huge impact.
With total revenues of $4,325,160 in fiscal year 2025 (which ended March 31, 2026), but slightly fewer expenses, JCFS not only delivered a wide gamut of services, it managed to deliver those services without incurring a deficit in 2025, despite some significant financial challenges.
As outgoing Board Chair Elana Grinshteyn observed, JCFS had to navigate some major reductions in funding, including a cut in funding from the federal government to the tune of $100,000, plus the loss of funding from the Claims Conference, which had provided support for Holocaust survivors.
Yet, despite those setbacks in funding, Grinshtein reported, “Together, we insured that services remained intact.
“We increased access to interest free loans,” she noted, “doubling” the amount that had been allocated in 2024.
And, amidst the ever-increasing demand for services, “JCFS has continued to navigate space limitations,” Grinshteyn noted. (I should note that as far back as 2019 I reported in an interview I had conducted with JCFS CEO Al Benarroch about the JCFS’s dire need for more space. Here is an excerpt from what Benarroch had to say about the JCFS’s need for more room back in 2019: “…we’ve been looking for roughly 3,000 more square feet of space. We have a footprint right now of roughly 5,000 square feet for over 40 staff. We’ve given up a board room here. It’s been taken over by older adult service staff. We have a conference room which is adjacent to the board room; we’ve moved two staff in there.
“Yesterday I gave up my office for the entire morning so that staff could interview clients.
“We need to relieve the pressure we’re facing right now – yet alone plan for expanding and growing.
“Whatever space we’d be looking at would be temporary. It’s now 22 years that we’ve been in this facility. The campus has taken over squash courts, it’s taken over a museum – internally, to accommodate the growth in services. Maybe it’s time now to look at growing outside this building…”
As the saying goes: “Plus ça change, plus c’est la même chose.” (That’s me, trying to impress.)
While I tried to take notes during Al Benarroch’s CEO report, I realized following his remarks that there was so much important information conveyed, also a slew of statistics, that it might be more helpful to reprint a good portion of what he said verbatim, so I asked Al to send me a copy of his remarks. (That’s one of the nice things about writing on a website. There’s an infinite amount of room to print the kind of stuff that nerds like me pretend to read.)
During his CEO’s report, Benarroch enumerated the many challenges JCFS encountered in 2025.
Among those challenges, Benarroch noted, were:
• The rising and high cost of living
• Food insecurity
• Housing issues
• Our aging population demographics
• The complex needs of our newcomer families
• The increasingly complex needs in mental health & youth mental health
Yet, despite all those challenges, Benarroch said, “As always… we rose to meet those head on, and with the support of our community.”
In particular, Benarroch cited the support of the Jewish Federation, which contributed $948,800 to JCFS in 2025. (The largest portion of JCFS funding, by the way came from the Province: over $1,100,000.)
Fundraising also played a significant role in contributing to JCFS revenues, with almost $700,000 raised through that route, including direct donations of over $320,000 and bequests over $40,000.
As Benarroch noted, “Every year, we look forward with hope that it will be a quiet year.
“Well, if that’s the case, we are in the wrong business.
“We happen to be in the reflect, respond and pivot business.
“This is the nature of the human existence.”
Benarroch went on to add some more statistics about how JCFS played such a pivotal role in the lives of so many people. In 2025 JCFS:
• Served 1,800 client households – impacting almost 5,000 people.
• Assisted 15 foster children.
• Served 70 families in Child Welfare….
“But what is even more important is that we assisted 90 children that remained at home with their families,” Benarroch said.
The year 2025 also saw the inauguration of what is known as the “Asper Empowerment Program”, through which:
• 311 clients were assisted (including Passover Assistance)
• $80,000 was disbursed in financial assistance
• Over $20,000 was given out in interest-free loans.
• 6,500 kg of food were disbursed
In the area of mental health and counselling services, Benarroch noted that JCFS:
• Supported over 50 adults with mental health challenges
• Our Friday Mental Health Wellness Group participants took part in 22 group activities or outings
• We support some 20 individuals and families impacted by addictions through individual and group services.
• We delivered almost 1,100 counselling sessions, over half of which were subsidized on our sliding scale.
• We continued to support individuals, families, and partner Jewish organizations with the ongoing emotional impacts of the war in Israel and high levels of global antisemitism.
In the area of support for older adults, JCFS served over 250 seniors including:
• 70 newcomer seniors
• 50 seniors living with mental health differences
• 65 Holocaust Survivors (including celebrating “25 years of our Holocaust Survivor Drop-in Group, a partnership with the Gwen Secter Creative Living Centre.”)
In the area of settlement services, JCFS:
• Welcomed almost 80 new families
• Almost 50 families from Israel, seeking reprieve from the ongoing stresses and pressures of the war.
Benarroch noted that “These families are dealing with the deep trauma of displacement, having lived under constant stress, fear and the ensuing post-traumatic impact, family and parenting challenges as a result, emotional exhaustion, financial strain, and more.
“Thanks to the Jewish Foundation of Manitoba, we hired a trained specialized support worker, with a background in therapy, to help these families cope, adjust, and receive much needed emotional supports.”
Benarroch went on to describe many more initiatives in which JCFS was engaged in 2025, but I want to return to the retirement of Elena Grinshteyn from the Board of JCFS after nine years serving on the Board, including the last two as Chair. Grinshteyn will be succeed by Bradley Abells, who has been on the Board since 2021. In his remarks, Abells noted that he is an actuary at Canada Life and that he first joined the Board when his particular expertise as an actuary proved extremely helpful in helping to solve a problem that had arisen, and he found the experience so rewarding he decided to remain on the Board ever since .
Also on the Board is Michael Schacter, who is returning as Treasurer and who looks the way you’d expect a finance guy to look.
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