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Prince and the Jews: The late rock star’s best Jewish friend tells all in new memoir

Neal Karlen
Neal Karlen (right) and cover
of his book about Prince

By STEPHEN SILVER
(JTA) — In the late 1960s, when Neal Karlen was not even 10 years old, he would spend time at the home of his grandparents, one of the few Jewish families that remained on the north side of Minneapolis. Karlen would play basketball and ride bikes with a group of African-American kids who lived in the neighborhood. One of them, he later realized, was a young Prince Rogers Nelson.

The two men would reconnect in the early 1980s, when Karlen was a magazine journalist and Prince one of the world’s most famous rock stars. Karlen wrote three Rolling Stone cover stories about the singer, some of them published at times when Prince wasn’t speaking to any other reporters. Karlen went on to collaborate with Prince on the 1994 direct-to-video rock opera “3 Chains o’ Gold” — which Karlen notes received “the worst reviews of anything [Prince] ever did” — and was eventually hired to write the singer’s “final testament,” which was said to have been buried in a time capsule on the grounds of Paisley Park, Prince’s legendary home and production facility southwest of Minneapolis.
“We were very similar, except that he was an international icon and I was some schmuck from St. Louis Park,” Karlen told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency.

Long after they stopped working together, Karlen and Prince remained in contact, speaking for the final time just weeks before Prince’s death in 2016 at the age of 57. Now, Karlen has published “This Thing Called Life: Prince’s Odyssey, On and Off the Record,” a memoir of his relationship with the enigmatic superstar.
“I was taking notes all the time,” Karlen said of the last years of his friendship with Prince. “But I didn’t know what it was for.”

What it was for turned out to be a mournful remembrance that provides new insight into the torments and mysteries of one of the most successful popular musicians of modern times. It also details a surprising number of connections between Prince and Judaism.
Prince had several Jews in his close circle, including several members of his best-known band, The Revolution. He was interested in a long list of Jewish subjects, including golems, dybbuks and the gangster Meyer Lansky. He was a huge fan of the television show “Seinfeld” and “The Big Lebowski,” the cult film in which John Goodman plays a Jewish Vietnam veteran who famously refuses to bowl on the Jewish sabbath. And Prince tagged along for meetings with rabbis conducted as part of Karlen’s research for his books.
“He liked Jews,” said Karlen, 60, who has authored several books with Jewish themes. “He did. Half the Revolution was Jewish. The guy who discovered him, Owen Husney, was Jewish. Mo Ostin and Lenny Waronker, who he really liked, his guys at Warner Brothers, were Jewish. He knew Jews, he liked them.”

But there was at least one ugly moment in Prince’s history with Jews, which Karlen discusses in the book: In the early 2000s, when a Revolution reunion was being proposed, Prince is said to have asked Wendy Melvoin, a key member of his band in the 1980s, to renounce her Judaism. Prince confirmed to Karlen that this was true.
“He may have just been just being an asshole that day,” Karlen says. “He could hurt people, and not realize it …. he just didn’t get that you shouldn’t turn your back on the people who love you. And I think those are the people who did love him, and why he really was alone at the end.”

The author of eight other books, Karlen couldn’t bring himself to listen to the tapes of his conversations with Prince for a long time after the singer’s death. Instead, he spent a year reading what others had written about Prince — everything except his own notes.
In the time between Prince’s death and the publication of the book, Karlen himself went through a great deal of personal trauma. His father died last September, and in April of 2017, nearly a year to the day after Prince’s death, he lost nearly all of his possessions in a fire. Luckily for him, the audio of his old interviews with Prince and other notes had been digitized just weeks earlier.
“I lost everything but my Prince stuff,” he said.

Karlen notes repeatedly in the book that Prince was very much unknowable, even to those who were close to him. Though he had long been vocal about hating drugs and even looked down on those who used them, Prince privately battled an opioid dependency that would eventually kill him. And like fellow Minnesotan Bob Dylan, he made a habit of saying things to the press about his upbringing that were contradictory or even outright untrue.
“He was inventing himself,” Karlen said. “The easiest way to reinvent yourself is to pretend you had no past.”

Karlen’s book also explores how Prince was shaped by the “Minnesota nice” stereotype of mild manners and passive aggression and how the state can often be an inhospitable place to those outside the dominant Scandinavian culture. Much of the music legend’s life was marred by his hostile relationship with his father and the death of his only child in 1996 — a tragedy, Karlen convincingly argues, Prince never really got over. Prince also had strained relationships with band members and his family, and he ended up dying alone at Paisley Park — the exact fate he had long feared.
“It breaks my heart, because I really did like him as a guy, but he was broken,” Karlen said. “I think his father did it, and I think it broke him as a human being, but it also sort is what propelled him into the next stratosphere…. I just wish he’d been happier more often.”

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Revisiting Boris Birshtein’s Efforts to Save a Holy Torah

Boris Birshtein had not been previously associated with saving Torah scrolls. He was a businessman. However this story will show an amazing tale that must be read in order to be believed.

The Torah, known as the five books of Moses, is the holiest object in Judaism. But in the case of the Torah scrolls found in a ravaged synagogue in Chișinău, Moldova, there is an added layer of significance due to their incredible survival story. And Boris Birshtein provided a helping hand.

Rabbi Avraham Greenbaum recalls the emotional moment when he first encountered these sacred scrolls shortly after Moldova’s independence from the Soviet Union. “When we arrived at the devastated synagogue in Chișinău, we discovered about thirty Torah scrolls, some inscribed with messages that spoke of their miraculous survival during the Holocaust.”

The scrolls, eventually saved by businessman Boris Birshtein, were inscribed with symbols of faith, echoed the resilience of the Jewish people. Rabbi Greenbaum describes one scroll bearing the message, “Joy is the happiness of the soul,” symbolizing the enduring joy of the Torah even amid unimaginable adversity.

For the Chișinău Jewish community, the discovery was bittersweet. The scrolls were found, but their condition revealed the toll of years of neglect. Recognizing the need for a large-scale restoration, the community knew who could help. Enter a Jewish businessman known as Boris Birshtein.

The Role of Boris Birshtein

They turned to Boris Joseph Birshtein, a Jewish-Lithuanian philanthropist and respected business leader in Moldova, to help bring these scrolls to safety. He played a critical role in securing permission from the Moldovan government, enabling the scrolls to be transported from Chișinău to Tel Aviv for restoration.

Reflecting on this mission, Birshtein stated, “The Nazis sought to destroy the very existence of the Torah, and everything it stood for. When I learned of the scrolls in the deserted Chișinău synagogue, restoring them was an opportunity to stand up to the attempt to eradicate Jewish life from the heart of Moldova.”

He envisioned the restoration as a chance to honor the joyous occasions once celebrated around each Torah scroll, representing not only preservation but also a revival of Jewish history and tradition.

Celebrating the Completion of Restoration

After years of meticulous work, the restoration project was completed in December 1996, culminating in an emotional ceremony held at the Nehora Yeshiva, “Lev Ya’akov,” in Mevaseret Zion.

This amazing event, filled with reverence and pride, attracted many, including respected rabbis and public figures. Birshtein had the honor of presenting one of these precious scrolls to the yeshiva, a gift that symbolized the dedication of many to safeguarding Jewish heritage.

In his speech accepting the Torah, Rabbi Greenbaum praised the partnership between people like Birshtein, who support the Torah, and the Chișinău community.

He likened this partnership to the biblical figures Zebulun and Issachar, expressing deep gratitude for Birshtein’s involvement. Rabbi Yisrael Meir Lau, former Chief Rabbi of Israel and a survivor of Buchenwald, also spoke, emphasizing the significance of the mitzvah “Write this song for yourselves,” which resonates deeply with the yeshiva’s students.

This momentous occasion at Nehora Yeshiva marked not only a new chapter in the life of the institution but also a tribute to the Jewish communities that had originally cherished these scrolls.

Birshtein reflected, saying, “I am honored to have played a small role in bringing the sacred Torah scrolls from Chișinău to Tel Aviv for restoration, and delighted that one of them will now be cherished at the Nehora Yeshiva. Indeed, joy is in the happiness of the soul, and my soul is filled with happiness at this moment.”

The journey of these Torah scrolls—from war-torn Europe to restoration in Tel Aviv—highlights the enduring power of faith and community and the unbreakable link between the Torah and the Jewish people.

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The Impact of Casino Bonuses: How to Maximize Free Spins, Match Bonuses, and More

Casino bonuses have become a significant feature in the online gambling industry, giving players the chance to extend their gameplay and improve their winning potential. And given the fact that Apple Pay casinos are quite popular in Canada, it’s easier than ever for players to access bonuses like free spins, match offers, and no-deposit rewards. Understanding these offers and how to use them effectively can truly elevate the gaming experience, putting you in control of your gaming journey.

Overview of common casino bonuses

Casino bonuses vary widely, with each type catering to different kinds of players and gaming preferences. Here are the most popular types:

Welcome bonuses

Welcome bonuses are more than just introductory offers provided to new players when they register with a casino. They are a gateway to a thrilling gaming experience. Typically, these bonuses are a combination of match bonuses (where the casino matches a percentage of the player’s first deposit) and free spins. For instance, a 100% match bonus of up to $500 plus 50 free spins on a popular slot game. Welcome bonuses offer substantial value and are designed to give new players an enticing start, igniting the excitement of your gaming journey.
No-deposit bonuses

No-deposit bonuses allow players to try games without putting their own money on the line. Players receive a small amount of money or free spins simply for registering. These bonuses are ideal for beginners who want to test a platform without financial commitment. However, they usually have higher wagering requirements.

Free spins

Free spins give players a certain number of free reel rotations on specific slot games. They’re often part of welcome bonuses but are also available as standalone offers for promotions or loyalty rewards. They let players enjoy slots without risking their own money, potentially leading to real cash wins.

Reload bonuses

Reload bonuses are designed for returning players, offering a match bonus on deposits after the initial one. These bonuses aim to keep players engaged over the long term, reward loyalty and are ideal for players who continue to deposit and play regularly.

Each of these bonuses has unique advantages and conditions, so understanding their structure can help players choose the ones that best suit their playing style and budget.

How to read and understand bonus terms and conditions

Casino bonus terms can be complex, often filled with fine print that can be easy to overlook but is essential to understand. Knowing what each clause means is crucial for maximizing bonuses.

Key terms to look for

  1. Wagering requirements
    • Definition: Wagering requirements are a key factor in understanding and maximizing bonuses. This term refers to the number of times you must play through the bonus amount before you can withdraw any winnings.
    • Example: A $100 bonus with a 30x wagering requirement means you must wager $3,000 before withdrawal.
    • Importance: Higher wagering requirements make it more challenging to access any real winnings from the bonus, so lower requirements are generally better.
  2. Eligible games
    • Definition: Not all games contribute equally towards meeting wagering requirements. Slots typically contribute 100%, but table games like blackjack and roulette may contribute less or be excluded.
    • Example: A casino may state that only slot games contribute to the wagering requirement, while table games contribute 20%.
    • Importance: Understanding which games qualify can help players make smart decisions about where to spend their bonus funds.
  3. Expiration dates
    • Definition: Many bonuses come with an expiration period, meaning they must be used within a set timeframe.
    • Example: A bonus may expire after 7 days if not fully used or wagered.
    • Importance: Players need to plan how they will use their bonuses to avoid losing them due to expiration.
  4. Max bet limits
    • Definition: Casinos may limit the maximum amount you can bet per spin or hand when using bonus funds.
    • Example: A casino might have a $5 maximum bet when using bonus money.
    • Importance: Exceeding this limit could void any winnings from the bonus, so it’s essential to stick to the set maximum.

Strategies for making the most of bonuses without falling into common traps

While bonuses offer excellent opportunities, there are also pitfalls that can undermine their value. Here are some strategies to maximize casino bonuses effectively:

  • Focus on lower wagering requirements: Bonuses with lower wagering requirements are easier to convert to cash winnings. Avoid bonuses with excessive requirements (e.g., 50x or higher), as they are challenging to fulfill.
  • Play eligible games: Since some games contribute more towards wagering requirements, prioritize those that offer the highest contribution (often slots) if your goal is to meet the wagering criteria quickly.
  • Mind the expiration date: Plan your play sessions to ensure you use the bonus before it expires. Many players miss out simply by not keeping track of this deadline.
  • Use bonuses strategically: Don’t rush to use all bonus funds in a single session. Taking a measured approach to your gameplay can extend your enjoyment and potentially improve your chances of winning.

How to compare bonuses across different casinos to find the best deals

With hundreds of casinos and bonus structures, finding the best deal requires a bit of research. Here’s a list of criteria to consider when comparing bonuses:

  1. Wagering requirements: Lower is better. Look for casinos that offer bonuses with 10x-30x wagering requirements over those with higher thresholds.
  2. Bonus value: Consider the percentage and maximum amount. A 100% match up to $500 might be better than a 50% match up to $1,000, depending on your bankroll.
  3. Game restrictions: Check if your favourite games are eligible and if they contribute fully to wagering requirements.
  4. Customer reviews: Look at reviews from other players to see if the casino is known for timely payouts and fair bonus terms.

By analyzing bonuses in this way, players can select a casino that best matches their playing style and budget.

How bonuses can significantly extend your playtime or boost winnings

Using casino bonuses effectively can dramatically extend your playtime and boost your potential winnings:

  1. Extended playtime with free spins: A player who receives 100 free spins on a slot game can enjoy extended playtime without spending additional money. If the player wins during these spins, those winnings can then be used on other games, allowing for further gameplay.
  2. Enhanced winnings with match bonuses: For instance, a player who deposits $100 and receives a 100% match bonus has $200 to play with. This doubles the initial bankroll, allowing the player to place larger bets or play longer, both of which increase the potential for higher returns.

In summary, casino bonuses provide valuable opportunities for players to extend gameplay and increase their chances of winning. By understanding the terms and conditions, choosing bonuses that match their preferences, and using strategies to maximize these offers, players can enjoy a more rewarding and engaging casino experience.

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The greatest escape

Bernard Pinsky

Author’s father survived Holocaust with grace, joy intact

By MARTIN ZEILIG Former Winnipegger Bernard Pinsky grew up listening to his father Rubin Pinsky’s stories of his childhood in Poland and his time spent living in the forest, where he survived the Holocaust after fleeing a Nazi work camp in 1942.

“My father’s stories didn’t make the Holocaust scary for me as a child,” Pinsky says.

“He told me about scavenging for food in the forest, learning what berries and roots he could eat, making baskets and other things from birch bark and twigs, learning the animal sounds, etc.”

Pinsky, who lives in Vancouver, will speak at the Winnipeg launch of his book,Ordinary, Extraordinary — My Father’s Life (Behind the Book), on Sunday — the anniversary of Kristallnacht — in honour of International Holocaust Remembrance Day.

The program will feature a conversation between Pinsky and Belle Jarniewski, executive director of the Jewish Heritage Centre. The event is presented by the centre in partnership with Jewish Child and Family Service and the philanthropic Ronald S. Roadburg Foundation, for which Pinsky, a retired lawyer and community leader, is the chairman.

Of his father, a former yeshiva student, Pinsky says, “He was not a particularly successful businessman in Canada, although we didn’t feel poor; we had what we needed. I saw how hard he worked, how positive he was, how he provided for his family despite not knowing any English or French when he came to Canada in his 20s.

“Despite his being an ordinary man, I realized that his life had taken an extraordinarily difficult route, which he overcame to create a normal, ordinary life for himself and his family.”

Pinsky wanted to honour his father, so for his 72nd birthday in 1996, he wrote a manuscript about his life as a gift.

“He was very happy to get it, but by then he had some mini-strokes (TIAs) and I doubt he ever read the whole manuscript,” Pinsky says via email.

He also sent the manuscript to some relatives, including Melvin Fenson, a Winnipegger and former partner of Walsh Micay law firm, who had made Aliyah (immigration of Jews from the diaspora to Israel) in the 1970s.

“Melvin read the manuscript and said that it contained some good information about the Holocaust and Yad Vashem (Israel’s official memorial museum to the victims of the Holocaust) might accept it for their archives,” Pinsky says.

The manuscript was submitted in 1997 and Yad Vashem said it would be included in its catalogue, but nothing happened for a decade.

Then, in 2007, Pinsky received a letter from a history teacher in Djatlovo, Belarus, who was hoping to translate the manuscript into Russian.

It turned out to be the same town as Pinsky’s father grew up in — prewar Gzetl, Poland.

“I went to Djatlovo in 2012 and saw both the incredible work that the teacher, a Russian Orthodox woman, and others like her were doing to create memorials to the Jewish community that perished in the Holocaust, and I saw the small museum in that teacher’s high school that she had created based on my work.

“She said she did it because she is religious and preserving the memory of the Jews, who were now all gone, was the right thing to do.”

At the time, Pinsky was a lawyer with a busy practice and planned to finish the book when he retired. However, at 67, he moved on to a new job at a charitable foundation that also left him little free time.

Finally, his wife pointed out that, since it seemed likely he would work long hours for the rest of his life, the time to finish the book was “now or never.”

He spent evenings and weekends in 2023 finishing the book, had it edited and self-published it.

Ordinary, Extraordinary is the survival story of Rubin Pinsky and some of Rubin’s immediate family,” he says. “But it is also the story of what Rubin did with his life after the Holocaust, his attitude towards life and his ability to pick himself up and to live life fully after every one of life’s blows, mostly with determination and with joy.

“His life could be an example of what people can endure in life and still be fulfilled and happy.”

Pinsky will offer one copy of the book to each family attending the event at the Berney Theatre. Register at 204-478-8590 or jewishheritage@jhcwc.org

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