Obituaries
MERLE ROCHELLE GARFINKEL
Merle Rochelle Garfinkel (née Vinsky) passed away peacefully and surrounded by family on Friday, August 26th, 2022, after a brief but difficult battle with lung cancer.
Pre-deceased by her parents Arthur and Betty Vinsky, sister Molly (Clarice) Pitsch and niece Betty Sucharov, Merle is survived by her loving husband of 52 years, Marvin, her children Ara (Jeff Morris), Jeffrey (Dana) and Sadira (Nick Chuback), her grandchildren Harlan, Emma, Kenzie, Edward and Margot, brothers-in-law Paul (Barbara) and Barry (Lili) and her nieces and nephews.
Born July 23, 1947, Merle grew up in Winnipeg’s North End, attending Peretz, Champlain and Machray schools, then St. John’s and Tec Voc high schools, where she completed her vocational training as a stenographer. After losing both of her parents at a young age, Merle learned the importance of independence and hard work early on, values she passed on to all three of her children. She was very close with her sister Clarice, who we lost too young.
Merle was known for her easy smile and quick wit and her love of music, dancing and socializing in general meant she was always the life of the party. Whether it was in school, at work, in Palm Springs or playing bridge or mah-jong, Merle made friends easily and for life. In fact, in many cases Merle could count the duration of her closest friendships in decades rather than years, and in some cases, lifetimes.
Family was always the most important thing in Merle’s life. Marrying Marvin at the age of 22, they built a true partnership based on love, trust, and patience. Together, they built the family she had always dreamed of, including their three children, their sons and daughter-in-law, and their five grandchildren, whom Merle always showered with love and affection. A perennial presence at her kids’ and grandkids’ sporting events and dance performances, Merle was known for her exuberant shouts of encouragement, and the occasional jeer at referees.
Whether in celebrating major family occasions, or at casual get-togethers or visits, Merle took great joy and pride in being surrounded by her loved ones, and her presence will be sorely missed by the many who loved her.
Merle’s funeral was held at Shaarey Zedek cemetery on August 28th, 2022. Pallbearers were Jeff Morris, Harlan Morris, Al Benarroch, Martin Kluner, Regan Katz and Steven Offman. Honourary pallbearers were Paul Garfinkel, Barry Garfinkel, Jack Offman, David Katz, Barry Hyman and Nick Chuback. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you make a donation to the charitable organization of your choice in memory of Merle.
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SOL SHLOMO TODRES
It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of Sol (Shlomo) Todres on October 27, 2024 in Israel. Sol was born in Winnipeg in 1934 to Sam and Bessie Todres. He was a proud North Ender who graduated from St. John’s High School and received his BA and Masters in Social Work from the University of Manitoba. He was a strong believer in the power of group work and translated those beliefs in his role as the first full-time Director of Bnai Brith Camp in Kenora. Of his many innovations, his most beloved and enduring was the development of Advanced Camp for the older campers- a source of meaningful and enduring memories for many.
In 1968 he made Aliyah and settled in Kfar Saba. He earned his doctorate in Social Work from Yeshiva University. His work career included contributions to the Ministry of Welfare and Bar Ilan University.
He is survived by his loving wife Varda, his son Allon (Ortal), his daughter Naomi of Ibiza, Spain. He leaves behind his brother Rubin (Elaine), his nephews, Jesse of Toronto, Howard of Saskatoon, his nieces Lindsay of New York, and Susan of Winnipeg, and three grandchildren.
Donations in his honour can be made to Bnai Brith Camp of Winnipeg
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BARBARA GOSZER April 15, 1930 – October 6, 2024
It is with profound sadness along with gratitude for her long and purposeful life that we announce the passing of Barbara Goszer. Left with cherished recollections are her children Sharon (Steven Tritt), Elliott (Jennifer Schulz), her grandchildren Sam (Justine), Joseph (Shaun), Nicholas, Sarah, Jack and Max, and her great-grandchildren Carson and Callie. She also leaves to mourn her passing nieces Hilda (Len), Debbie (Jack), Libby (Doug) and their families who loved their “Aunty” dearly. She was predeceased by “the love of her life”, Adam, to whom she was married for almost 60 years and by a daughter, Yonah.
Barbara was born in Lwow, Poland where she often said she had an idyllic childhood until 9 years of age, when the Second World War and the Holocaust started. She was the sole survivor of her family, having been hidden by a courageous woman whom she had honoured as The Righteous Among the Nations and whose descendants sought her out in 2013, forming a warm connection over the past decade.
Barbara was a petite but strong, opinionated, principled woman with an extraordinary sense of social justice, a remarkable work ethic, and the deepest of loyalty. She lived with intention. As a living witness to a time in history when inhumanity was at its height, she spent decades dedicated to educating school aged children and their teachers throughout Manitoba and other parts of Canada about the dangers of discrimination and intolerance of diversity. She advocated standing up for others and taking action despite fear. She also encouraged appreciation for freedom and having a roof over one’s head. Her legacy will inspire her family members as well as generations of children to make a difference in bettering the world we live in. She dreamed of a world free of hatred and of a bright future.
Thank you to Dr. Sheila Domke, her primary care physician, to the entire health care team on 4 North at Grace Hospital, and to her many caregivers in the past couple of years who treated her with the utmost of dignity and respect.
Funeral services were held graveside at Rosh Pina Memorial Park on October 8, 2024. Those wishing to honour her memory can do so by making a donation to the “Barbara and Adam Goszer Holocaust Education Centre Endowment Fund” at the Jewish Foundation of Manitoba.
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BARBARA RUTH HOCHMAN June 7, 1952 – September 16, 2024
t is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Barbara Hochman on Monday, September 16, 2024. Barbara was born and raised in Winnipeg, Manitoba, the first child born to Clarice and Jack Rubin. She is survived by her husband of 52 years, Danny, mother Clarice, sister Jackie (Akman), brother Ron (Rubin), brother-in-law Mickey Hochman (Dorine), nephew Jared Akman (Leanne), niece Jamie Berman (Skyler) and great-nieces and nephew, Lowan, Julie, Shea and Hannah. Barb was predeceased by her father Jack Rubin and brother-in-law Richard Akman. Barbara grew up in River Heights, attending Grant Park High School, then continued her studies at the University of Manitoba. On her first day of university she met Danny and they were married two years later. Barbara began working as a secretary at the law firm Aikins, MacAulay and Thorvaldson, and then advanced to become a corporate and commercial paralegal. She returned to law school while working at AM&T, and eventually became a partner at the firm. Barbara excelled at everything she put her mind to. She was beautiful, stylish and fiercely intelligent. Barb courageously fought her first battle with cancer over 30 years ago. Since then she enjoyed life to the fullest. Barb was a loving and devoted wife, an amazing sister and an extremely generous aunt and great-aunt. She and Danny moved from Winnipeg to Kelowna 15 years ago where they escaped Winnipeg winters and saw their golf games flourish. Barbara will be greatly missed. Funeral services were held to celebrate Barbara’s life on September 20, at the Shaarey Zedek Cemetery. Pallbearers were Jared Akman, Jamie Berman, Skyler Berman, Brent Knazan, David Rubin and Danny Rubin.
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