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This Jewish New York City Council candidate has a prolific passion: serial sperm donation

(New York Jewish Week) — Jonathan David Rinaldi, 44, is a Republican who is running to represent New York’s District 24, which encompasses the Queens neighborhoods of Kew Gardens, Fresh Meadows, Briarwood and Jamaica. This week, he made headlines for protesting outside a motel in his district that, he claimed, was housing newly arrived migrants.

But last November, he gained local fame for a different reason. Rinaldi was featured in a post on Humans of New York, the viral social media project in which photographer Brandon Stanton posts portraits of New Yorkers he meets on the street, along with stories they relate in their own voices.

Rinaldi’s story was particularly eyebrow-raising: He said he had fathered at least 12 children over the course of two years through sperm donation — but not via sperm banks that pay donors, vet their health and limit their offspring. And he said he planned to keep going, in part because of his Jewish identity.

He said he was driven in part by his Jewish identity. “I explain to each [woman]: ‘This child will be born into a larger family. I have eighteen other children.’” Rinaldi said in the caption. “I’d like as many as God will give me. Why put your entire bloodline into one child when you can spread it out? Eighteen is a holy number in Judaism. And the next one is 36, so I’ll reassess then.” 

In the Humans of New York post, Rinaldi detailed the process (“Fresh is better than frozen”) and said that he’s had sex with some of the women and wants to remain involved in their lives. “I’m what they call a ‘known donor,’” he said. “Everything is kinda handshake. I don’t charge the mothers. And they don’t expect any financial support.”

The post garnered a string of negative reactions from social media users. In response, Stanton wrote on Instagram that “stories from people you may not identify with, or even like, were a common part of HONY pre-pandemic. And will be again now that I’m back on the street.”

The post did not identify Rinaldi, but he confirmed to the New York Jewish Week over the phone that he was the person in the portrait and post. “I was interviewed once,” Rinaldi said. “It was taken out of context. I had a long conversation, a random conversation with somebody on the street.”

Rinaldi also confirmed that he donates his sperm — and has attempted to square that practice with Jewish tradition. He said that he has spoken with a rabbi to “try and figure out how to be as kosher as I possibly can and have as many children as the Bible commands,” and gave the name of a local Chabad rabbi. The rabbi declined to comment about Rinaldi but confirmed their relationship.

“It’s our responsibility as Jews blessed by God to have children,” said Rinaldi, who also has three children from a previous marriage. “Some of us are doing it extremely kosher, the way it’s supposed to be, you have a nice Jewish wife, you go to temple every day. For me, it didn’t work out that way.” 

The Torah contains the commandment to “be fruitful and multiply,” which rabbis have traditionally interpreted as an imperative to have children. Rabbis have prohibited sperm donation, however, in part due to prohibitions on masturbation and on having children with an unknown father. Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, a leading 20th-century authority, wrote that it’s preferable for Jewish women who cannot use their husband’s sperm to use non-Jewish sperm for artificial insemination in order to avoid accidental incest in future generations.

Rinaldi said that he began donating sperm when the city was locked down due to the spread of COVID-19, and that he first donated to a friend. From there, he said, word spread of his donations. Rinaldi is what is called a “known donor,” or someone whose identity is known to the recipient and, potentially, their children. Known donors are legal in the United States, but serial sperm donation is discouraged by many countries, in large part because of the risk of biologically related offspring procreating together in the future. The Netherlands set up systems to curb a serial donor who fathered at least 100 children, while Israel barred an American Jewish man dubbed “the Sperminator” because of his extensive efforts to procreate from impregnating more women there. Ari Nagel’s own progeny tally neared 100 after a prolific pandemic, he revealed in 2021.

Rinaldi, too, said the pandemic had spurred his donations.

“At no point did I ever go to a sperm bank,” Rinaldi said. “At no point did I ever intend to do this. We were all at home, shut down. A lot of people desired families. This is not your typical sperm donor situation. … I was just blessed to even have the opportunity. I didn’t do it for money. I didn’t ask for anything. I just wanted to help families.”

He wouldn’t confirm how many children he has through sperm donation, though in the Humans of New York caption, he’s quoted as saying he had fathered 12 over the previous two years — and, at the time, three more were on the way. In an interview Wednesday with the New York Jewish Week, he responded to a question about how many children he has by repeating an idea he had alluded to in the caption: that according to Jewish tradition, the number 18 represents life.

“Eighteen is a holy number,” Rinaldi said in the interview. “It’s just what God has blessed me with. I’m doing this because I don’t believe in abortion. I am pro-life.”

Opposing abortion isn’t the only right-wing position Rinaldi holds. In an interview, he railed against the COVID-19 vaccine and compared vaccine requirements to the persecution of Jews during the Holocaust, a common line of criticism at the time. “You could have just worn a yellow unvaccinated star on your shirt,” he said, adding, “We were literally one thing away from them coming up to rounding up the unvaccinated.” He also said transgender people are “against Torah principles” and said schools are “not teaching kids God.”

On Tuesday, he and a group of Republican activists showed up at a Kew Gardens motel to protest migrants coming to the city, even though a lawyer for the motel said the owner is “not interested in signing a contract” to house migrants.

In District 24, Rinaldi will run against Democratic Council member Jim Gennaro, who has represented the district for more than a decade. 

Rinaldi, who grew up in New York City, said his grandmother escaped Poland to Argentina during World War II. His grandfather also left Moldova at the time. Although both countries were occupied by the Nazis or their allies, Rinaldi said his grandparents were “against the tyranny of the left at that time.”

Rinaldi said he studied for his bar mitzvah at Yeshivas Ohr HaChaim, an Orthodox institution in Kew Gardens, and attended City College of New York in uptown Manhattan where he studied architecture, which is also reflected on a LinkedIn page that appears to belong to him.

He later worked in construction and design for over a decade and appeared on the HGTV reality television show “Million Dollar Contractor.” 

When it comes to his sperm donation, however, Rinaldi is less comfortable being in the public eye, despite the Humans of New York post. “My lifestyle is nobody’s business,” he said. 

“I am what it looks like when you don’t abort children,” Rinaldi said. “Let’s just focus on the issues if we can. I’m going to do the right thing for the community. My personal business is my personal business.” 

Back in the Humans of New York post, Rinaldi suggested that he hoped to expand his personal business. He mused about practices that Jewish tradition has, for the past millennium, frowned upon: “My ultimate goal is to find two or three of the mothers who will be sister wives, because I’m gonna need help with all this,” he said. “But I know one thing: It will never be boring.”


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Ohio State University Says It Could Not Stop Holocaust Denier Myron Gaines From Speaking on Campus

Podcaster and commentator Myron Gaines. Photo: Screenshot

The Ohio State University (OSU) has said it was legally powerless to prevent online influencer Myron Gaines — who regularly promotes Nazism, Holocaust denial, and other antisemitic conspiracy theories on his podcast — from speaking on campus late last month amid widespread criticism of its having conferred legitimacy to a man who is notorious for denigrating women, African Americans, and Jews.

“Last week, an external speaker was invited to campus by a registered student organization, and during the visit, a variety of viewpoints were expressed, both by the speaker and those who chose to attend,” the university said following the event, which reportedly saw Gaines greet his audience by pantomiming the Nazi salute.

When asked at the event by a Jewish attendee how many people he believed had been killed by the Holocaust, Gaines replied, “271,000 at best.” He also denied evidence that rape occurred during Hamas’s Oct. 7, 2023, massacre across southern Israel.

“Prior to the event, the university remind the host student organization of the expectations and guidelines within the university’s Freedom of Expression Policy … and Use of Outdoor Space policies,” the school added in its statement.

Gaines, whose real name is Amrou Fudl, has become increasingly affiliated with fellow podcaster Nicholas Fuentes’s so-called “groyper” movement, which rejects multiracial democracy, the US-Israel relationship, and liberalism as a political theory.

The “groypers,” a named derived from the evolution of the Pepe the Frog meme popularized by the far right, especially target Jews and the state of Israel most and have reprised antisemitic tropes and conspiracies to promote their agenda. A staple of their ideology is Holocaust denialism and revision, which is trafficked alongside false claims that Israel is committing a genocide of Palestinians.

Last year, Gaines was recorded on video calling a pregnant woman a “fat f**king Jew” while wearing a hoodie mocking Holocaust victims. The incident occurred outside of a Turning Point USA event in Phoenix, Arizona in December. He was wearing a hoodie depicting Sesame Street‘s Cookie Monster standing behind an oven. Above the image was text that read, “Let Em Cook.”

Gaines has been touring US college campuses to influence young minds as part of an initiative sponsored by Uncensored America, a nonprofit organization with ties to the far right.

“While the university is not legally permitted to prohibit free speech, including controversial speech, on its public grounds, appropriate steps were taken to preserve peace and ensure unrestricted travel on campus while it took place,” OSU said in its statement. “The university is also aware of the ways in which some instances of protected speech can personally impact various members of our community, and we remain committed to addressing these impacts when appropriate.”

Gaines’s appearance came amid a surge in right-wing antisemitism, especially among younger Americans.

In March, the University of Florida deactivated its College Republicans chapter following revelations that two of its leaders photographed themselves pantomiming the Nazi salute. Less than two weeks prior to that incident, The Miami Herald disclosed the existence of a virulently racist group chat in which conservative youth in Miami-Dade County, Florida exchanged antisemitic slurs while calling for the of murder African Americans.

Dariel Gonzalez, according to the Herald, was one of the chat’s most prolific contributors, bandying about comments regarding “color professors” and telling members that “You can f—k all the k—kes you want. Just don’t marry them and procreate.” Gonzalez, a former board member of Florida International University’s College Republicans, also reportedly promoted belief in “Agartha,” a Nazi utopia confected by Heinrich Himmler, while fantasizing about the possibility of engaging in onanism there. Some vile remarks drew the approbation of other chat members, many of whom are connected to Republican Party organizations across the state.

Recent polling shows that young Republicans have increasingly embraced antisemitism and conspiracy theories.

In February, for example, a survey by Irwin Mansdorf, a fellow at the Jerusalem Center for Security and Foreign Affairs, and Charles Jacobs, president of the Jewish Leadership Project, found that 45 percent of Republicans under the age of 44 said Jews pose a threat to the “American way of life.”

In December, the Manhattan Institute, a prominent US-based think tank, released a major poll showing that younger Republican voters are much less supportive of Israel and more likely to express antisemitic views than their older cohorts.

According to the data, 25 percent of Republicans under 50 openly express antisemitic views as opposed to just 4 percent over the age of 50. Startlingly, a substantial amount, 37 percent, of GOP voters indicate belief in Holocaust denialism. These figures are more pronounced among young men under 50, with a majority, 54 percent, agreeing that the Holocaust “was greatly exaggerated or did not happen as historians describe.” Among men over 50, 41 percent agree with the sentiment.

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Good Intentions Without Humility Can Be Dangerous

Rabbi Joseph Shapotshnick. Photo: From the album Samuel Royde’s photos by Samuel Royde, Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons

“The road to Hell is paved with good intentions.” It’s one of those sayings we hear so often that it risks sounding trite. But history — and human nature — suggests that it may be one of the most important truths we ignore at our peril.

Because the people who cause the most damage are rarely those with bad intentions. They are the ones who believe, with complete sincerity, that they are doing something necessary — righteous, even — something only they have the courage to do.

In the early decades of the 20th century, in the crowded, combustible world of London’s East End, there lived a rabbi named Joseph Shapotshnick. He was not a marginal figure. Quite the opposite. Charismatic, energetic, creative, exceptionally talented, brilliantly articulate, and a serious scholar, after arriving in London in 1913, he quickly built a following among immigrant Jews who felt mistreated and overlooked by the communal establishment. He spoke their language — literally and figuratively — and positioned himself as their champion as they struggled to acclimate to the harsh realities of their new home.

And in many ways, he was their champion. Shapotshnick saw — and actively addressed — problems others preferred to ignore. He challenged entrenched institutions. He launched newspapers, organizations, and ambitious publishing projects. He believed Judaism needed to be accessible, dynamic, and responsive to the realities of modern life. These were not the instincts of a cynic. They were the instincts of someone who cared deeply — perhaps too deeply.

Because there was another layer. Behind the activism, behind the creativity, behind the undeniable passion, there was a pattern. Shapotshnick’s projects were grand — often breathtakingly so — but frequently untethered from practical reality.

His grand-sounding “Rabbinical Association” was, in essence, a one-man enterprise. His publishing ambitions stretched into the realm of the fantastical. Time and again, he demonstrated what can only be described as a profound inability to recognize the limits of his own authority and expertise. And then came the moment that would define him.

In the aftermath of the First World War, Jewish communities across Europe were grappling with a heartbreaking and complex crisis: agunot — women whose husbands had disappeared, possibly dead but possibly not, leaving them unable to remarry under Jewish law. It was a real and deeply painful problem, one that demanded not just compassion, but immense halachic skill and sensitivity to resolve.

And so, Shapotshnick stepped in. But he did not approach the issue as a careful halachic authority would — working case by case, building consensus, navigating the intricate web of precedent and responsibility. Instead, he sought something far more sweeping.

Shapotshnick envisioned systemic solutions — bold, far-reaching changes that would release every agunah, freeing them all to remarry. He issued rulings, claimed support from rabbinic colleagues he had barely — or never — consulted, publicized his conclusions, and positioned himself squarely at the center of the effort.

From his perspective, he was doing something heroic. After all, who could argue with the goal? Who wouldn’t want to alleviate suffering? Who wouldn’t want to free trapped women from impossible situations?

But that is precisely where the danger lay. Because what he failed to recognize was that, notwithstanding his good intentions, the very scale and sensitivity of the problem demanded restraint, not audacity. More than anything, it demanded a deep awareness of one’s own limitations.

Instead, what emerged was something else entirely: a man so convinced of the righteousness of his cause that he no longer saw the boundaries that should have governed his actions.

And then another layer began to surface — one far less noble. Alongside his passion for justice came an increasingly strident tone, particularly in his attacks on the leading rabbinic authorities of his day. Instead of engaging with them, debating them, or even deferring to their vastly greater experience, Shapotshnick dismissed them. Worse than that, he mocked them, positioning himself not merely as a challenger to the establishment, but as its superior.

What may have begun as a sincere attempt to solve a painful communal problem now revealed a deeper undercurrent: an ego that could not tolerate opposition, that interpreted disagreement as obstruction, and that saw itself as uniquely qualified to succeed where others had failed. In doing so, he didn’t just alienate the very people whose support he needed — he undermined the legitimacy of his own cause.

The tragedy is that his good intentions were real. But they were ultimately eclipsed by an inflated sense of self that turned a worthy cause into a personal crusade — and, in the process, weakened the very thing he was trying to achieve.

And of course, none of this was new. It is a pattern that has been repeated throughout history, and it already appears at the dawn of Jewish history, in Parshat Shemini. At the height of one of the most sacred moments in Jewish history — the inauguration of the Mishkan — two towering figures, Nadav and Avihu, the sons of Aharon, step forward to bring a special offering.

It was an act of devotion, an expression of spiritual longing. And then, in an instant, they are gone, felled in a moment of divine judgment. The Torah’s explanation is both simple and devastating: They offered a foreign fire, which they had not been commanded to bring.

It is one of the most perplexing episodes in the Torah. Nadav and Avihu were clearly great people, and the commentaries struggle to come to terms with their misstep. One opinion is that they acted in the presence of Moshe without consulting him, even though he was clearly their senior in wisdom and authority.

Their spiritual enthusiasm is not in doubt, but the underlying critique is simple: They allowed their inflated sense of themselves to override the boundaries that should have constrained them. They were drawing close to God, but entirely on their own terms — an example of ego overriding submission to a higher authority.

If you begin to believe your own PR — that your intentions are so pure, and your insights so refined, that the usual constraints no longer apply — you are already in dangerous territory. Because in that moment, good intentions turn into self-assertion. And self-assertion, in a sacred space, becomes hubris.

The tragedy of Nadav and Avihu is not a story of bad intentions. It is a story of good intentions untethered from humility. And that is precisely what makes it so unsettling — because it is so easy to see ourselves in it.

Rabbi Joseph Shapotshnick fell into that same trap. He cared deeply, and he acted boldly. But in doing so, he inserted himself into a space that demanded something else — not less passion, but more restraint. He was not lacking in courage; he was lacking in humility.

We should admire people who challenge systems and push boundaries — sometimes, that instinct is exactly what is needed. But there is a caveat: Never let ego overtake the process. The most dangerous moment is not when someone acts maliciously. It is when someone becomes so convinced of the purity of their intentions that they no longer consider the possibility that they might be wrong. That is when even the noblest cause becomes distorted. You have to know where you end, and the system begins — and understand that conviction is not a license to act without limits.

Joseph Shapotshnick wanted to fix a broken world. In that, he was not alone — and he was not wrong. But in the story of Nadav and Avihu, the Torah reminds us, in the most dramatic way possible, that wanting to do something good does not justify the way it is done. Good intentions matter. But without humility, they are not enough.

The author is a rabbi in Beverly Hills, California.

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I’m a Jewish candidate for New York comptroller. Our state must divest from Israel bonds

The New York state and local retirement fund owns $368 million in Israel bonds. Most state pension funds own none. And most New Yorkers have no idea that their tax-funded pension fund, as invested by State Comptroller Tom DiNapoli, helps finance Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s wars.

As an American Jew and as a candidate for New York state comptroller, I want to offer why I have committed, as part of my campaign, to divest this stake.

We have just finished observing Passover, our people’s essential story of freedom. It is also a story of reckoning. As we read through the book of Exodus, we learn that a walk that would normally have taken four weeks took 40 years as our ancestors wrestled with God and false idols, with each other and with themselves. Because liberation required reckoning — an entire generation of it — so the children of these refugees could understand that freedom comes not just with power but also responsibility.

This Passover gave us many reasons to reckon with our own power and responsibility.

Our country has been at war. Again. Our president has turned mask-wearing, rifle-wielding agents on our own people. Our politicians talk tough in echo chambers designed to echo louder and louder.

And as American Jews at this moment, many of us are also reckoning with Israel.

When I take on that reckoning, a word repeated ritually at our Seder comes to mind: “dayenu.” A word so sacred to me — meaning “it would have been enough for us” — that it is engraved on the Star of David I wear around my neck.

But it rang differently for me this year. Instead of hearing “dayenu” as an expression of gratitude for every single step of God’s deliverance, the word hit me like a piercing shofar blast, crying: “enough is enough!”

When is enough today?

Responding to the Hamas massacre of its civilians on Oct. 7, 2023, Israel said it would do what any country would do: defend itself and get its hostages back. But Netanyahu’s government has gone much further than that. It has unleashed overwhelming killing power, leaving tens of thousands of Palestinian civilians dead and millions more displaced and destitute. It has leveled a stretch of land the size of Brooklyn and Queens — dropping nearly as many bombs in that crowded space in the first week of fighting as fell during an entire year of the U.S. war in Afghanistan.

It has also sponsored a newly energized and brutal expansion of settlements in the West Bank; just this week, the government approved 34 new settlements. And it has now invaded Lebanon after joining the U.S. in a bombing war against Iran.

The images from the massacre and trauma perpetrated by Hamas haunt me. But the Jewish values I grew up with — like tikkun olam (repairing the world) and ha lachma anya (the Seder’s call to offer what we have to those whose needs are greater) — could never justify responding to this trauma with such overwhelming cruelty. We have witnessed blockades and starvation; the cutting off of medical supplies; and the murder and displacement of children and families.

New York state must not enable or be complicit in such human misery any longer.

Our current state comptroller, who has been in office since 2007, does not see it that way. He continues to use New Yorkers’ money to finance Netanyahu’s war machine. He purchased an additional $20 million in Israel bonds after Oct. 7, and chose not to sell them as Israel’s government ravaged Gaza. The present campaign, in which Democratic voters will be able to cast a primary vote against DiNapoli for the first time in 20 years, gives us the opportunity to make a different choice.

We can and must divest our public pension fund’s stake in financing Israel’s government, and from all other foreign governments. (New York state holds stakes in just three other countries: Saudi Arabia, Jordan and Canada, a degree of selectivity that suggests no coherent strategy). And we can do so now instead of waiting decades for these bonds to mature, as some of my opponents in this primary have proposed.

This makes financial and moral sense. The record amount of Israel debt DiNapoli has amassed — it currently makes up 80% of all foreign government debt owned by our pension fund — poses a concentration risk.

But concentration risk aside, there has to be a point when we reach our own limit, when we say enough is enough. If not, we lose what it means to be human. As humans, with God-given freedom and the responsibility that comes with it, we face the reality that the merciless policies of Netanyahu’s government represent a moral catastrophe, and New York state cannot continue to finance them.

The words of Exodus 23:9 leap off the page: “No stranger shall you oppress, for you know the stranger’s heart, since you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” This is our call, as Jews, to fight for the stranger wherever they may be.

If you have the power to do something about it, you do it. And if you don’t have the power, you fight for it.

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